Brand new to bdsm and looking for advice
Me and my wife both took a test on BDSMTest.org and realized we both like a lot of similar things. Our interests gave us a 90% match. So now we are both eager to explore bdsm.
However, we are both still fairly new to the idea. She has been on Fetlife before and part of a rope class. But this is all new to me. We are both switches, so I am trying to learn what that means for us.
I'm hoping to find out how to find local events, and what different events actually entail. We would want to go as a couple. We are definitely not wanting to share each other with anybody. But we want help learning the ropes (pun intended) first hand so we know how to properly establish boundaries and do aftercare correctly.
Any advice on where to start and what the different events terms mean would be much appreciated. Thanks in advance for anyone willing to help!