Getting a hotwife to use her hall pass
Wifey and I have a fair amount of experience adding 3rds to the mix, whether she plays by herself or in a mfm situation.
I also have a weird obsession/kink with having her 'break our rules' and go farther with someone than what our plans dictate beforehand. It all stems from one of the first times we added someone else - I had set up an erotic massage for her, and the guy was awesome about keeping in character for the role play. It ended up with her sucking his cock, which was not on the agenda...and the even hotter part is she never actually revealed that tidbit to me and hasn't to this day. I found out from the guy afterwards as he was chatting with her still. She actually told him she would have fucked him if he asked.
Looking for suggestions on scenarios that could end in a similar fashion, or suggestions on what makes women who know they can hookup with whoever actually take the next step and the iniative. She always has permission, but I don't want to always be the sexy social convenor either.