47 M4F #Toronto - chasing the ideal
Searching for a special someone, an unlikely match in the right situation...
I have always done the normal predictable thing, the nice-guy easy-going thing, the safe thing. Went to school, got a good job, got married fairly young, had kids (and dogs)... Always fulfilling my imaginary perception of other people's expectations, but lacking real passion. And now I have this life, which is busy and full, and on the surface it looks great, but my spirit has been stifled. I live in a mostly comfortable cage of commitment and responsibility. But I'm not as tame as I look...
I am not brand new at this, I know what I'm doing, and I am back here to find somebody with a similar desire to escape from the everyday grind once in a while and be my secret friend. Be my partner in crime. We will carefully maintain these lives of ours while we make each other smile and enjoy each other's company, remotely, and in person whenever possible. Ideally, you will frequently be in downtown Toronto or within a short drive on weekdays. And even more ideal would be if you have a place where we can meet. But of course hotels do exist.
I'm not as boring as that average guy in my first paragraph but I'll admit I'm not exactly edgy either. I can be nerdy and awkward at times, and suave in others. Generally I'm soft and cuddly and mostly harmless, but I'm also more capable and confident in the bedroom than you might expect from this description.
Physically, I'm a tall good looking white guy with a short beard and a dad bod, but I'm in pretty good shape with broad shoulders and a good amount of muscle.
I gravitate to positivity and kindness, authenticity and independent thought. I hope to find somebody passionate and uninhibited, a fun-loving free spirit. Or at least an open-minded desire to explore. Let's have a good time together!