Need tips for first time pegging my experienced bf
So as the title reads, I need some advice. My bf and I have been slowly inching further and further into anal play. I've always been interested in it but never had the opportunity, and he has been with some men, as well as been pegged by a couple women.
We've played a few times where I'd use my fingers or a toy on him, but last weekend we officially went out and got a strap. We're both sub leaning switches and whenever we've done anything like this, he prefers that I take the lead. I enjoy being dominant but it takes me a while to feel comfortable enough to do that with someone so I secretly don't always have the most confidence. I'm also absolutely clueless when it comes to the actual act of pegging and what to do as far as starting and pacing and things like that.
As for the dominance thing, so far Ive done stuff like spanking, digging my nails into his back while I have him bent over, he's been wanting to try more bdsm/bondage type things (which is my area of experience) so I got a flogger and some other stuff like that to introduce him to it. But I'm struggling with the verbal sense. I feel like a weirdo being dead silent back there but I don't know if it's weird to moan when I know that he knows I'm not getting physical pleasure? Or are there certain phrases I can say that are pretty baseline and standard? I know I could be asking him these things but I want to at least have some ideas instead of making him walk me through the whole thing.
As for pegging.. not a damn clue. I need all the advice 💀 he's done it before and I don't wanna look like an amateur (even though he knows I am). I just want it to be an enjoyable experience and not make any silly first timer mistakes. We've got the proper tools, lube, and cleanup covered. I just don't know how to get started and don't want to risk hurting him bc Idk wtf I'm doing.