Why does sex not feel as good with my now Ex girlfriend... 😔
So... I would say im a guy who is pretty experienced in the bedroom and can last awhile, but my sexual appetite has cooled down a lot. Long story short... I met a girl after being single for like 9 years that I really liked and she really liked me but the sex just didn't feel as good to me as it supposedly did to her... She would have multiple orgasms and sometimes I wouldn't even finish and would just give up from sheer exhaustion of having sex for too long. Now I usually could finish when we would have sex but a lot of the times i would have to focus really hard on trying to finish to be able to... some positions I would even just get soft...
I have tried more foreplay with her and new positions and such but can't seem to figure out a good solution, I had even heard of the death grip syndrome and had stopped masturbating for weeks (i didnt even need to anyway with her sex drive being higher than mine) I know I'm very attracted to her physically but I cant figure out what the issue is... in Doggy style (which is one of my faves) sometimes it feels like im inside nothing (and im not small or at least partners say im not)
We broke up for other reasons but we are still great friends. She still wants to have sex sometimes though and I don't know what to do... We still have a lot of feelings for each other and i don't know how to talk to her about this without hurting her she is really sensitive and needs a lot of reassurance...
SIDE NOTE: since we have broken up I have had sex with 2 other ppl one old partner and one new and both were amazing and felt 10× better unfortunately but im not as attracted physically or emotionally to those other 2 women...
I'm really hoping its not just that our anatomy isn't compatible or something that can't be fixed or worked through...