Is it bad to be a straight bottom?
I figured this sub might be a good place to ask, since you know, the whole sub is about men bottoming for women. So im a dude, but i dont really feel comfortable topping, or at least I think I wouldnt feel comfortable doing it. Its not like a preference thing, its more like I have "complicated" feelings around doing something like that and id rather just avoid it entirely. Bottoming however sounds far more appealing i guess, as far as I can tell. But the issue is im mostly into women, im not really into guys. Which brings up the massive issue of sexual compatibility. Because its not like I can top and I just prefer bottoming, its like I genuinely do not want to top and dont feel comfortable doing it with another person, so its off the table for me. It makes me feel bad because it sounds very selfish, like I should be able to enjoy penetrating my partner because im a man and so I "owe" it to them. But is it fine? Like is there anything inherently wrong with being a bottom as a straight man beyond the issue of there basically being no one compatible, or is this something I should feel bad about and try to fix?