u/UpDog_84

42 [M4F] #SanDiego - Let's play a Q&A game and see if the compatibility and chemistry is truly there.

I will start by saying that I'm not currently looking for a serious relationship. I am single, unmarried with no kids. I'm enjoying my current situation living alone and hanging out with my pup. However, we all have our needs for a little intimacy and connection.. so I would be curious to make a new casual friend or fwb, I would even be open to more of a discreet situation with someone.

I know it can be a little awkward to start conversations while trying to get to know someone new. Especially when it comes to asking some of those more personal questions that we're all incredibly curious to know about.

I say we skip through some of that basic awkwardness and cut right down to the truth of who we really are. Whether you already have experiences or still looking to explore new things for the first time.

I propose we take turns asking one another two questions a piece.

  1. A pretty basic and standard "getting to know you" type of question that you'd normally ask anyone you just met.. Like what are your favorite hobbies, goals, foods, movies, interests, pets..

  2. A more naughty and much more personal type of question asking about your kinks, sexual interests, experiences, fantasies, desires, likes and dislikes..

We can use the anonymity of this app to be as honest as possible.. if our answers aren't lining up with one another then we can respectfully go our separate ways with no worries. However, if we are finding that a lot of our answers are syncing up with one another.. well, who knows? No pressures or expectations, just go with the flow and see where the answers might take us.

We can ask whatever question we're genuinely curious about, and answer as honestly as possible without any judgments or criticisms. I think this could be an exciting way to meet someone new and really get a good sense of if the compatibility is there.

If you're feeling curious to chat with someone new feel free to hit me up. I'll start with the first two questions for you to answer in your first reply.. and I more than welcome any other initial information about yourself you'd want to tell me about in your first reply. The more detailed you are about yourself the better, honestly..

First 2 questions:

  1. What's your age/gender/location?

  2. What would you say is your favorite physical feature about yourself or you get the most compliments on?

Your turn.

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u/UpDog_84 — 2 days ago

42 [M4F] #SanDiego - Could be exciting to have a daddy/daughter Zoo day Roleplay..

Your daddy just moved pretty close to the San Diego Zoo and would love to take my pretty little obedient daughter to a fun day at the Zoo . Complete with a full day of daddy spoiling you with cuddles and treats while we look at all the adorable animals together.

It'll look like we are a loving daddy/daughter having an innocently fun day at the Zoo, but when nobody is looking.. your daddy may give my sexy little girl a few sneaky touches.. and my daughter will give her daughter little teases all day long.

I'm not looking for a serious relationship right at the moment, but this could be a fun adventure for someone who is curious about the ddlg kink and/or public play kink.. maybe you're visiting from our of town and just looking for a unique and sexy experience. Or you're from San Diego but also not looking for anything serious or complicated at the moment. We'll just be two normal people who wants to spend a day or weekend having a bit of a naughty roleplay.

We can start online, establish a connection and chemistry before we ever decide to meet in person. Make sure we build up enough comfort before we ever plan to meet in person. We will absolutely discuss all of our kinks, desires, like, dislikes and any limitations we may have, so we can feel pretty compatible with one another to share this experience with.

I am unmarried and no kids. I definitely lean more dominant but with a gentle touch. I can be very kink friendly, open-minded and completely non-judgmental. I can certainly play up the more strict or stern fatherly figure.. but I am also very affectionate, attentive, respectful and caring with my partner. Nothing matters more to me than making sure my partner always feels safe, comfortable and feeling free to express herself around me at all times. I am a huge cuddler, so you'd definitely get spoiled with countless cuddles, forehead kisses and massages around me. Oh, and I'm a huge animal lover. I'm the guy at the party petting the dog in the corner instead of trying to be the center of attention.

I'm overall a pretty easy going, calm, common sense, rational guy who loves hanging out with my dog. I'm a little more of an introvert who'll always love to snuggle up with you to watch a movie or nerdy TV show, or even play some videogames or boardgames. I also enjoy being outdoors doing some hiking, camping, fishing, or just going on roadtrips.

I am std free and test regularly. I'm 5'7 with a pretty fit build, good hygiene. I guess I'd say my "daughter" is most likely Petite, Perky and Playful... preferably a little more nerdy and definitely a bit more tomboyish.. she's short, shy and sweet. She's also more of an introvert but still loves her occasional outdoor adventures. I'd prefer her to be more humble and happy with a simple life. I am cannabis friendly and could be open to sharing a little weed or even taking some edibles to add a little extra fun to our day.

It's fine with me if you aren't local to Socal but still interested in chatting. I'm sure if the connection is there, we'll make it work out. So hit me up with your age/gender/location a brief physical description and your favorite Zoo animal and we can see where things take us.

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u/UpDog_84 — 2 days ago

42 [M4F] #SanDiego - Looking for a Grope & Go type of fwb situation

Recently out of a relationship and I'm not looking to rush into a new one. I've got my humble little spot for my pup and I and that's good enough for me. However, having a little intimacy and chemistry with someone is always exciting and I'm thinking about a few unique ways to start a casual or maybe even discreet situation with the right adventurous woman.

I have always found those moments of being a little sneaky and naughty in public with a partner to be pretty thrilling. When your partner is discreetly teasing you around other people... or giving you quick flashes when nobody is looking.. and it feels so hot when you're able to get that quick touch or grope when nobody is paying attention. Just you and your partner sharing this naughty secret together while out in public.

I think this could be an incredibly fun way to start a new fwb dynamic with someone who shares in these kinks. Maybe after we chat and build up a good amount of trust, comfort and chemistry we can see about making something happen in person.

Maybe we don't go about the traditional ways of planning a first date.. maybe we setup a groping or teasing encounter instead. We'll both show up somewhere in a public place like a shopping center, bar, movie theater or out at the park/hiking trail and maybe "bump" into one another.. It could be exciting if we technically never interact that first time in public. Maybe you just notice me from across the room and give a few playful smirks and innocent teases.. maybe I casually find a way to sit closer to you or even next to you.. still no words spoken, but eventually you'll feel a hand softly resting on your leg, or maybe somewhere else..

Could be pretty thrilling to plan a first date where it looks like we don't even know one another to everyone else around us.. but they don't need to know what's happening under the table or at the park when nobody is looking.

Obviously, we'll need to have plenty of conversations and communications about our likes, kinks, desires and limitations before we play out a first date or encounter.

I ultimately think this could be an exhilarating way to connect with someone new in a low pressure and low expectations type of dynamic. A situation where we both go about our daily lives and responsibilities without much disruption or change. We'll just plan the occasional public interaction when the mood is hitting us.

We can act like complete strangers in public for the first few times we meet and maybe progress from there if the chemistry and compatibility feels right for us. I could potentially be open to invite you over for more traditional hangouts where you can hang with my dog while I make us some food and watch movies or something. I'm not looking for anything serious, but a legit new friend or fwb could definitely be a nice experience.

I'm a man who certainly has his kinks, but I'm also a pretty easygoing, non-judgemental, common sense, rational guy with a solid sense of humor. I'm very open minded and pretty much impossible to offend. I'm someone who has made an effort to eliminate any negative energy and negative people from my live. I'm all about positivity and good vibes these days. I'm very respectful and looking for a meaningful connection with someone. Even if it's just an fwb situation, I'll always be very present in the moments with you, respectful, sensual and juuust the right amount of being dominant without pushing your boundaries too far.

I am 5'7 and around 160 lbs with a pretty fit build and typically some facial hair, stubble or a beard. I have good hygiene and completely std free. I am cannabis friendly and will do shrroms on occasion, but never been interested in doing any harder drugs. I like my coffee black, my whiskey on the rocks and I'll always pick my dog over you, which I would 100% expect you to pick your pet over me as well, if you have one.

Well, I think I've rambled on long enough. If my post has piqued your curiosity then don't hesitate to send me a reply. Try to be pretty detailed in your response. So many fakes and scammers out here these days.. it'll go a long way if you give me a decently thorough response of who you are and what you're hoping to find. I'm all about being very honest, open and blunt with one another from the start. Let's talk and maybe we'll see each other in public one of these days.

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u/UpDog_84 — 10 days ago

42 [M4F] #SanDiego - Looking for a Grope & Go type of fwb situation

Recently out of a relationship and I'm not looking to rush into a new one. I've got my humble little spot for my pup and I and that's good enough for me. However, having a little intimacy and chemistry with someone is always exciting and I'm thinking about a few unique ways to start a casual or maybe even discreet situation with the right adventurous woman.

I have always found those moments of being a little sneaky and naughty in public with a partner to be pretty thrilling. When your partner is discreetly teasing you around other people... or giving you quick flashes when nobody is looking.. and it feels so hot when you're able to get that quick touch or grope when nobody is paying attention. Just you and your partner sharing this naughty secret together while out in public.

I think this could be an incredibly fun way to start a new fwb dynamic with someone who shares in these kinks. Maybe after we chat and build up a good amount of trust, comfort and chemistry we can see about making something happen in person.

Maybe we don't go about the traditional ways of planning a first date.. maybe we setup a groping or teasing encounter instead. We'll both show up somewhere in a public place like a shopping center, bar, movie theater or out at the park/hiking trail and maybe "bump" into one another.. It could be exciting if we technically never interact that first time in public. Maybe you just notice me from across the room and give a few playful smirks and innocent teases.. maybe I casually find a way to sit closer to you or even next to you.. still no words spoken, but eventually you'll feel a hand softly resting on your leg, or maybe somewhere else..

Could be pretty thrilling to plan a first date where it looks like we don't even know one another to everyone else around us.. but they don't need to know what's happening under the table or at the park when nobody is looking.

Obviously, we'll need to have plenty of conversations and communications about our likes, kinks, desires and limitations before we play out a first date or encounter.

I ultimately think this could be an exhilarating way to connect with someone new in a low pressure and low expectations type of dynamic. A situation where we both go about our daily lives and responsibilities without much disruption or change. We'll just plan the occasional public interaction when the mood is hitting us.

We can act like complete strangers in public for the first few times we meet and maybe progress from there if the chemistry and compatibility feels right for us. I could potentially be open to invite you over for more traditional hangouts where you can hang with my dog while I make us some food and watch movies or something. I'm not looking for anything serious, but a legit new friend or fwb could definitely be a nice experience.

I'm a man who certainly has his kinks, but I'm also a pretty easygoing, non-judgemental, common sense, rational guy with a solid sense of humor. I'm very open minded and pretty much impossible to offend. I'm someone who has made an effort to eliminate any negative energy and negative people from my live. I'm all about positivity and good vibes these days. I'm very respectful and looking for a meaningful connection with someone. Even if it's just an fwb situation, I'll always be very present in the moments with you, respectful, sensual and juuust the right amount of being dominant without pushing your boundaries too far.

I am 5'7 and around 160 lbs with a pretty fit build and typically some facial hair, stubble or a beard. I have good hygiene and completely std free. I am cannabis friendly and will do shrroms on occasion, but never been interested in doing any harder drugs. I like my coffee black, my whiskey on the rocks and I'll always pick my dog over you, which I would 100% expect you to pick your pet over me as well, if you have one.

Well, I think I've rambled on long enough. If my post has piqued your curiosity then don't hesitate to send me a reply. Try to be pretty detailed in your response. So many fakes and scammers out here these days.. it'll go a long way if you give me a decently thorough response of who you are and what you're hoping to find. I'm all about being very honest, open and blunt with one another from the start. Let's talk and maybe we'll see each other in public one of these days.

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u/UpDog_84 — 10 days ago

42 [M4F] #NorthPark - Looking for a Grope & Go type of fwb situation

Recently out of a relationship and I'm not looking to rush into a new one. I've got my humble little spot for my pup and I and that's good enough for me. However, having a little intimacy and chemistry with someone is always exciting and I'm thinking about a few unique ways to start a casual or maybe even discreet situation with the right adventurous woman.

I have always found those moments of being a little sneaky and naughty in public with a partner to be pretty thrilling. When your partner is discreetly teasing you around other people... or giving you quick flashes when nobody is looking.. and it feels so hot when you're able to get that quick touch or grope when nobody is paying attention. Just you and your partner sharing this naughty secret together while out in public.

I think this could be an incredibly fun way to start a new fwb dynamic with someone who shares in these kinks. Maybe after we chat and build up a good amount of trust, comfort and chemistry we can see about making something happen in person.

Maybe we don't go about the traditional ways of planning a first date.. maybe we setup a groping or teasing encounter instead. We'll both show up somewhere in a public place like a shopping center, bar, movie theater or out at the park/hiking trail and maybe "bump" into one another.. It could be exciting if we technically never interact that first time in public. Maybe you just notice me from across the room and give a few playful smirks and innocent teases.. maybe I casually find a way to sit closer to you or even next to you.. still no words spoken, but eventually you'll feel a hand softly resting on your leg, or maybe somewhere else..

Could be pretty thrilling to plan a first date where it looks like we don't even know one another to everyone else around us.. but they don't need to know what's happening under the table or at the park when nobody is looking.

Obviously, we'll need to have plenty of conversations and communications about our likes, kinks, desires and limitations before we play out a first date or encounter.

I ultimately think this could be an exhilarating way to connect with someone new in a low pressure and low expectations type of dynamic. A situation where we both go about our daily lives and responsibilities without much disruption or change. We'll just plan the occasional public interaction when the mood is hitting us.

We can act like complete strangers in public for the first few times we meet and maybe progress from there if the chemistry and compatibility feels right for us. I could potentially be open to invite you over for more traditional hangouts where you can hang with my dog while I make us some food and watch movies or something. I'm not looking for anything serious, but a legit new friend or fwb could definitely be a nice experience.

I'm a man who certainly has his kinks, but I'm also a pretty easygoing, non-judgemental, common sense, rational guy with a solid sense of humor. I'm very open minded and pretty much impossible to offend. I'm someone who has made an effort to eliminate any negative energy and negative people from my live. I'm all about positivity and good vibes these days. I'm very respectful and looking for a meaningful connection with someone. Even if it's just an fwb situation, I'll always be very present in the moments with you, respectful, sensual and juuust the right amount of being dominant without pushing your boundaries too far.

I am 5'7 and around 160 lbs with a pretty fit build and typically some facial hair, stubble or a beard. I have good hygiene and completely std free. I am cannabis friendly and will do shrroms on occasion, but never been interested in doing any harder drugs. I like my coffee black, my whiskey on the rocks and I'll always pick my dog over you, which I would 100% expect you to pick your pet over me as well, if you have one.

Well, I think I've rambled on long enough. If my post has piqued your curiosity then don't hesitate to send me a reply. Try to be pretty detailed in your response. So many fakes and scammers out here these days.. it'll go a long way if you give me a decently thorough response of who you are and what you're hoping to find. I'm all about being very honest, open and blunt with one another from the start. Let's talk and maybe we'll see each other in public one of these days.

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u/UpDog_84 — 10 days ago

42 [M4F] #NorthPark - Looking for a Grope & Go type of fwb situation

Recently out of a relationship and I'm not looking to rush into a new one. I've got my humble little spot for my pup and I and that's good enough for me. However, having a little intimacy and chemistry with someone is always exciting and I'm thinking about a few unique ways to start a casual or maybe even discreet situation with the right adventurous woman.

I have always found those moments of being a little sneaky and naughty in public with a partner to be pretty thrilling. When your partner is discreetly teasing you around other people... or giving you quick flashes when nobody is looking.. and it feels so hot when you're able to get that quick touch or grope when nobody is paying attention. Just you and your partner sharing this naughty secret together while out in public.

I think this could be an incredibly fun way to start a new fwb dynamic with someone who shares in these kinks. Maybe after we chat and build up a good amount of trust, comfort and chemistry we can see about making something happen in person.

Maybe we don't go about the traditional ways of planning a first date.. maybe we setup a groping or teasing encounter instead. We'll both show up somewhere in a public place like a shopping center, bar, movie theater or out at the park/hiking trail and maybe "bump" into one another.. It could be exciting if we technically never interact that first time in public. Maybe you just notice me from across the room and give a few playful smirks and innocent teases.. maybe I casually find a way to sit closer to you or even next to you.. still no words spoken, but eventually you'll feel a hand softly resting on your leg, or maybe somewhere else..

Could be pretty thrilling to plan a first date where it looks like we don't even know one another to everyone else around us.. but they don't need to know what's happening under the table or at the park when nobody is looking.

Obviously, we'll need to have plenty of conversations and communications about our likes, kinks, desires and limitations before we play out a first date or encounter.

I ultimately think this could be an exhilarating way to connect with someone new in a low pressure and low expectations type of dynamic. A situation where we both go about our daily lives and responsibilities without much disruption or change. We'll just plan the occasional public interaction when the mood is hitting us.

We can act like complete strangers in public for the first few times we meet and maybe progress from there if the chemistry and compatibility feels right for us. I could potentially be open to invite you over for more traditional hangouts where you can hang with my dog while I make us some food and watch movies or something. I'm not looking for anything serious, but a legit new friend or fwb could definitely be a nice experience.

I'm a man who certainly has his kinks, but I'm also a pretty easygoing, non-judgemental, common sense, rational guy with a solid sense of humor. I'm very open minded and pretty much impossible to offend. I'm someone who has made an effort to eliminate any negative energy and negative people from my live. I'm all about positivity and good vibes these days. I'm very respectful and looking for a meaningful connection with someone. Even if it's just an fwb situation, I'll always be very present in the moments with you, respectful, sensual and juuust the right amount of being dominant without pushing your boundaries too far.

I am 5'7 and around 160 lbs with a pretty fit build and typically some facial hair, stubble or a beard. I have good hygiene and completely std free. I am cannabis friendly and will do shrroms on occasion, but never been interested in doing any harder drugs. I like my coffee black, my whiskey on the rocks and I'll always pick my dog over you, which I would 100% expect you to pick your pet over me as well, if you have one.

Well, I think I've rambled on long enough. If my post has piqued your curiosity then don't hesitate to send me a reply. Try to be pretty detailed in your response. So many fakes and scammers out here these days.. it'll go a long way if you give me a decently thorough response of who you are and what you're hoping to find. I'm all about being very honest, open and blunt with one another from the start. Let's talk and maybe we'll see each other in public one of these days.

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u/UpDog_84 — 10 days ago

42 [M4F] #NorthPark - Looking for a Grope & Go type of fwb situation

Recently out of a relationship and I'm not looking to rush into a new one. I've got my humble little spot for my pup and I and that's good enough for me. However, having a little intimacy and chemistry with someone is always exciting and I'm thinking about a few unique ways to start a casual or maybe even discreet situation with the right adventurous woman.

I have always found those moments of being a little sneaky and naughty in public with a partner to be pretty thrilling. When your partner is discreetly teasing you around other people... or giving you quick flashes when nobody is looking.. and it feels so hot when you're able to get that quick touch or grope when nobody is paying attention. Just you and your partner sharing this naughty secret together while out in public.

I think this could be an incredibly fun way to start a new fwb dynamic with someone who shares in these kinks. Maybe after we chat and build up a good amount of trust, comfort and chemistry we can see about making something happen in person.

Maybe we don't go about the traditional ways of planning a first date.. maybe we setup a groping or teasing encounter instead. We'll both show up somewhere in a public place like a shopping center, bar, movie theater or out at the park/hiking trail and maybe "bump" into one another.. It could be exciting if we technically never interact that first time in public. Maybe you just notice me from across the room and give a few playful smirks and innocent teases.. maybe I casually find a way to sit closer to you or even next to you.. still no words spoken, but eventually you'll feel a hand softly resting on your leg, or maybe somewhere else..

Could be pretty thrilling to plan a first date where it looks like we don't even know one another to everyone else around us.. but they don't need to know what's happening under the table or at the park when nobody is looking.

Obviously, we'll need to have plenty of conversations and communications about our likes, kinks, desires and limitations before we play out a first date or encounter.

I ultimately think this could be an exhilarating way to connect with someone new in a low pressure and low expectations type of dynamic. A situation where we both go about our daily lives and responsibilities without much disruption or change. We'll just plan the occasional public interaction when the mood is hitting us.

We can act like complete strangers in public for the first few times we meet and maybe progress from there if the chemistry and compatibility feels right for us. I could potentially be open to invite you over for more traditional hangouts where you can hang with my dog while I make us some food and watch movies or something. I'm not looking for anything serious, but a legit new friend or fwb could definitely be a nice experience.

I'm a man who certainly has his kinks, but I'm also a pretty easygoing, non-judgemental, common sense, rational guy with a solid sense of humor. I'm very open minded and pretty much impossible to offend. I'm someone who has made an effort to eliminate any negative energy and negative people from my live. I'm all about positivity and good vibes these days. I'm very respectful and looking for a meaningful connection with someone. Even if it's just an fwb situation, I'll always be very present in the moments with you, respectful, sensual and juuust the right amount of being dominant without pushing your boundaries too far.

I am 5'7 and around 160 lbs with a pretty fit build and typically some facial hair, stubble or a beard. I have good hygiene and completely std free. I am cannabis friendly and will do shrroms on occasion, but never been interested in doing any harder drugs. I like my coffee black, my whiskey on the rocks and I'll always pick my dog over you, which I would 100% expect you to pick your pet over me as well, if you have one.

Well, I think I've rambled on long enough. If my post has piqued your curiosity then don't hesitate to send me a reply. Try to be pretty detailed in your response. So many fakes and scammers out here these days.. it'll go a long way if you give me a decently thorough response of who you are and what you're hoping to find. I'm all about being very honest, open and blunt with one another from the start. Let's talk and maybe we'll see each other in public one of these days.

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u/UpDog_84 — 10 days ago

42 [M4F] #NorthPark - Are rimjobs too dirty or incredibly intimate? Which side are you on?..

I get it, this fetish isn't for everyone but I've been really getting into the kink of meeting a woman who loves passionately rimming a guy or at least curious to turn it into a secret passion.. I can't say I'm looking for a serious relationship right at the moment, but it could be thrilling to start something casual and friendly with someone who matches my kinky curiosities.

I could even be open to hanging out on occasions where giving an amazing rimjob is the only thing on the menu.. though I would certainly be open to more kinky activities happening between us.

Maybe once we build enough comfort and trust, we can start having the occasional no stress, easy going hangs that perhaps gets a little kinky between us. I'd be down to invite you over at times to eat a nice dinner, watch movies, maybe play a videogame if that's your thing and see where the night takes us.

Personally, I'd even find it hot if this is just a dirty little secret between us. Maybe you consider yourself to be this proper, sophisticated, professional woman who has a few secret cravings. People in your life having no idea you'd be capable of being used by someone in such a way. Maybe sometimes we'll see each other in public places, and we won't approach each other, I'll just give you a little smirk knowing where that naughty tongue of yours was just days earlier.

As far as hygiene goes.. I will absolutely be very willing to be freshly groomed and showered right before any hangout begins, whether before you come over, or after you're here so you can confirm. I also have a sneaky public play kink, if we ever feel like exploring this kink outside.

I know this is a pretty dirty kink, but I am a pretty normal, chill and respectful guy who is looking for a mature and respectable woman with a secret dirty side of her own.. Here's a little bit about me:

I'm not married and have no kids. I do have an awesome dog who you might be lucky enough to meet if/when you ever come over.. I am 5'7 about 160lbs with a pretty fit build and working on it.. I have good hygiene and completely std free (I'd like to stay that way and down to retest before anything happens between us). I usually have a little facial hair, a hairy chest and keep myself well groomed in all the right places.

I'm overall a pretty easy going, rational, common sense guy with a witty, sarcastic sense of humor who's pretty much impossible to offend. I'm also pretty open-minded and non-judgemental, so you'll never get any kind of kink shaming from me. I'm not someone who is interested in argumentative or confrontational people, I've learned to weed out the negative energy and negative people from my world and only interested in stress free, good times from people.

Speaking of weed.. I am cannabis and occasionally shroom friendly, just to throw that out there. Not something we ever have to engage in, but could be on the table if we inevitably ever want to add it into the mix. Never been interested in any kind of harder drugs.

I'll assume anyone still reading this has at least some interest in exploring this idea and don't hesitate to reach out. No rush or pressure, we can chat and see if the compatibility seems right between us. Hit me up and tell me a few basics about yourself and maybe a bit about your experiences with this kink. Looking forward to playing with you.

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u/UpDog_84 — 11 days ago

42 [M4F] #NorthPark - Are rimjobs too dirty or incredibly intimate? Which side are you on?..

I get it, this fetish isn't for everyone but I've been really getting into the kink of meeting a woman who loves passionately rimming a guy or at least curious to turn it into a secret passion.. I can't say I'm looking for a serious relationship right at the moment, but it could be thrilling to start something casual and friendly with someone who matches my kinky curiosities.

I could even be open to hanging out on occasions where giving an amazing rimjob is the only thing on the menu.. though I would certainly be open to more kinky activities happening between us.

Maybe once we build enough comfort and trust, we can start having the occasional no stress, easy going hangs that perhaps gets a little kinky between us. I'd be down to invite you over at times to eat a nice dinner, watch movies, maybe play a videogame if that's your thing and see where the night takes us.

Personally, I'd even find it hot if this is just a dirty little secret between us. Maybe you consider yourself to be this proper, sophisticated, professional woman who has a few secret cravings. People in your life having no idea you'd be capable of being used by someone in such a way. Maybe sometimes we'll see each other in public places, and we won't approach each other, I'll just give you a little smirk knowing where that naughty tongue of yours was just days earlier.

As far as hygiene goes.. I will absolutely be very willing to be freshly groomed and showered right before any hangout begins, whether before you come over, or after you're here so you can confirm. I also have a sneaky public play kink, if we ever feel like exploring this kink outside.

I know this is a pretty dirty kink, but I am a pretty normal, chill and respectful guy who is looking for a mature and respectable woman with a secret dirty side of her own.. Here's a little bit about me:

I'm not married and have no kids. I do have an awesome dog who you might be lucky enough to meet if/when you ever come over.. I am 5'7 about 160lbs with a pretty fit build and working on it.. I have good hygiene and completely std free (I'd like to stay that way and down to retest before anything happens between us). I usually have a little facial hair, a hairy chest and keep myself well groomed in all the right places.

I'm overall a pretty easy going, rational, common sense guy with a witty, sarcastic sense of humor who's pretty much impossible to offend. I'm also pretty open-minded and non-judgemental, so you'll never get any kind of kink shaming from me. I'm not someone who is interested in argumentative or confrontational people, I've learned to weed out the negative energy and negative people from my world and only interested in stress free, good times from people.

Speaking of weed.. I am cannabis and occasionally shroom friendly, just to throw that out there. Not something we ever have to engage in, but could be on the table if we inevitably ever want to add it into the mix. Never been interested in any kind of harder drugs.

I'll assume anyone still reading this has at least some interest in exploring this idea and don't hesitate to reach out. No rush or pressure, we can chat and see if the compatibility seems right between us. Hit me up and tell me a few basics about yourself and maybe a bit about your experiences with this kink. Looking forward to playing with you.

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u/UpDog_84 — 11 days ago

42 [M4F] #NorthPark - Are rimjobs too dirty or incredibly intimate? Which side are you on?..

I get it, this fetish isn't for everyone but I've been really getting into the kink of meeting a woman who loves passionately rimming a guy or at least curious to turn it into a secret passion.. I can't say I'm looking for a serious relationship right at the moment, but it could be thrilling to start something casual and friendly with someone who matches my kinky curiosities.

I could even be open to hanging out on occasions where giving an amazing rimjob is the only thing on the menu.. though I would certainly be open to more kinky activities happening between us.

Maybe once we build enough comfort and trust, we can start having the occasional no stress, easy going hangs that perhaps gets a little kinky between us. I'd be down to invite you over at times to eat a nice dinner, watch movies, maybe play a videogame if that's your thing and see where the night takes us.

Personally, I'd even find it hot if this is just a dirty little secret between us. Maybe you consider yourself to be this proper, sophisticated, professional woman who has a few secret cravings. People in your life having no idea you'd be capable of being used by someone in such a way. Maybe sometimes we'll see each other in public places, and we won't approach each other, I'll just give you a little smirk knowing where that naughty tongue of yours was just days earlier.

As far as hygiene goes.. I will absolutely be very willing to be freshly groomed and showered right before any hangout begins, whether before you come over, or after you're here so you can confirm. I also have a sneaky public play kink, if we ever feel like exploring this kink outside.

I know this is a pretty dirty kink, but I am a pretty normal, chill and respectful guy who is looking for a mature and respectable woman with a secret dirty side of her own.. Here's a little bit about me:

I'm not married and have no kids. I do have an awesome dog who you might be lucky enough to meet if/when you ever come over.. I am 5'7 about 160lbs with a pretty fit build and working on it.. I have good hygiene and completely std free (I'd like to stay that way and down to retest before anything happens between us). I usually have a little facial hair, a hairy chest and keep myself well groomed in all the right places.

I'm overall a pretty easy going, rational, common sense guy with a witty, sarcastic sense of humor who's pretty much impossible to offend. I'm also pretty open-minded and non-judgemental, so you'll never get any kind of kink shaming from me. I'm not someone who is interested in argumentative or confrontational people, I've learned to weed out the negative energy and negative people from my world and only interested in stress free, good times from people.

Speaking of weed.. I am cannabis and occasionally shroom friendly, just to throw that out there. Not something we ever have to engage in, but could be on the table if we inevitably ever want to add it into the mix. Never been interested in any kind of harder drugs.

I'll assume anyone still reading this has at least some interest in exploring this idea and don't hesitate to reach out. No rush or pressure, we can chat and see if the compatibility seems right between us. Hit me up and tell me a few basics about yourself and maybe a bit about your experiences with this kink. Looking forward to playing with you.

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u/UpDog_84 — 11 days ago

Where better than reddit to talk with sketchy new strangers online, am I right?..

I'm looking for more of a casual, fwb type situation. I'm not so much interested in any kind of serious relationship at the moment.

I thought it could be thrilling to meet a woman who also gets a little excited by secretly getting a little naughty in public, when no one is watching. Whether you enjoy giving sneaky flashes while we're out.. or occasionally move off from the hiking trail when the urge hits.. or get a little handsy while inside a dark movie theater, or in a busy bar.. and those times when you just can't wait to drive home and we have to pull over to relieve some stress right there on the side of the road, or while still driving..

One of my more ultimate public play fantasies would be to get one of those remote control Vibrators (like the lush 3) and secretly have control over you while we are out in public together. I think the idea of secretly teasing and turning each other on in public while nobody else around us is aware, is an exhilarating activity with a partner.

I'm not looking to get to blunt or disrespectful to people around us with it, and definitely not looking to get us in any kind of trouble. I'm thinking more subtle and sneaky touches, gropes, flashes when we're both comfortable we can do it, and maybe get a little more daring when the opportunity is available for us.

I am overall a pretty rational, common sense person who thinks it can be fun to push boundaries a bit, but never take things too far.

I'm pretty easy going, non-judgemental and not looking to rush, pressure or put any unnecessary expectations on anyone. I'm looking for more of an outdoor activities buddy, but have no issue inviting you over to hang with my pup, share a little cannabis and watch some movies at times.

I am STD free and absolutely down to retest/share results before we ever decided to hangout. I am 5'7 with a pretty fit build and trying to stay more active. I love taking my pup on hikes and being outdoors camping, fishing, indoor rock climbing, roadtripping, exploring.. I can also really enjoy a lazy day indoors binging shows like It's Always Sunny, Breaking bad, Rick & Morty, etc.. or just get lost in random Youtube vids about cooking, comedy, nerdy or some mystery clips.. I am a pretty big film nerd and enjoy some open world videogames but wouldn't call myself a gamer. I'm not someone who ever gets too angry or irrational and prefer to live my life as stress free as possible, surround myself with positive energy and I absolutely always use humor and sarcasm to break any kind of awkward tension.

So if you're curious for a new friend to have some kinky new adventures with hit me up and let's see how we get along. We can chat until both feel comfortable to possibly meet. Let's talk about our favorite movies and brag about how awesome our pets are.

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u/UpDog_84 — 22 days ago

Where better than reddit to talk with sketchy new strangers online, am I right?..

I'm looking for more of a casual, fwb type situation. I'm not so much interested in any kind of serious relationship at the moment.

I thought it could be thrilling to meet a woman who also gets a little excited by secretly getting a little naughty in public, when no one is watching. Whether you enjoy giving sneaky flashes while we're out.. or occasionally move off from the hiking trail when the urge hits.. or get a little handsy while inside a dark movie theater, or in a busy bar.. and those times when you just can't wait to drive home and we have to pull over to relieve some stress right there on the side of the road, or while still driving..

One of my more ultimate public play fantasies would be to get one of those remote control Vibrators (like the lush 3) and secretly have control over you while we are out in public together. I think the idea of secretly teasing and turning each other on in public while nobody else around us is aware, is an exhilarating activity with a partner.

I'm not looking to get to blunt or disrespectful to people around us with it, and definitely not looking to get us in any kind of trouble. I'm thinking more subtle and sneaky touches, gropes, flashes when we're both comfortable we can do it, and maybe get a little more daring when the opportunity is available for us.

I am overall a pretty rational, common sense person who thinks it can be fun to push boundaries a bit, but never take things too far.

I'm pretty easy going, non-judgemental and not looking to rush, pressure or put any unnecessary expectations on anyone. I'm looking for more of an outdoor activities buddy, but have no issue inviting you over to hang with my pup, share a little cannabis and watch some movies at times.

I am STD free and absolutely down to retest/share results before we ever decided to hangout. I am 5'7 with a pretty fit build and trying to stay more active. I love taking my pup on hikes and being outdoors camping, fishing, indoor rock climbing, roadtripping, exploring.. I can also really enjoy a lazy day indoors binging shows like It's Always Sunny, Breaking bad, Rick & Morty, etc.. or just get lost in random Youtube vids about cooking, comedy, nerdy or some mystery clips.. I am a pretty big film nerd and enjoy some open world videogames but wouldn't call myself a gamer. I'm not someone who ever gets too angry or irrational and prefer to live my life as stress free as possible, surround myself with positive energy and I absolutely always use humor and sarcasm to break any kind of awkward tension.

So if you're curious for a new friend to have some kinky new adventures with hit me up and let's see how we get along. We can chat until both feel comfortable to possibly meet. Let's talk about our favorite movies and brag about how awesome our pets are.

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u/UpDog_84 — 22 days ago

Where better than reddit to talk with sketchy new strangers online, am I right?..

I'm looking for more of a casual, fwb type situation. I'm not so much interested in any kind of serious relationship at the moment.

I thought it could be thrilling to meet a woman who also gets a little excited by secretly getting a little naughty in public, when no one is watching. Whether you enjoy giving sneaky flashes while we're out.. or occasionally move off from the hiking trail when the urge hits.. or get a little handsy while inside a dark movie theater, or in a busy bar.. and those times when you just can't wait to drive home and we have to pull over to relieve some stress right there on the side of the road, or while still driving..

One of my more ultimate public play fantasies would be to get one of those remote control Vibrators (like the lush 3) and secretly have control over you while we are out in public together. I think the idea of secretly teasing and turning each other on in public while nobody else around us is aware, is an exhilarating activity with a partner.

I'm not looking to get to blunt or disrespectful to people around us with it, and definitely not looking to get us in any kind of trouble. I'm thinking more subtle and sneaky touches, gropes, flashes when we're both comfortable we can do it, and maybe get a little more daring when the opportunity is available for us.

I am overall a pretty rational, common sense person who thinks it can be fun to push boundaries a bit, but never take things too far.

I'm pretty easy going, non-judgemental and not looking to rush, pressure or put any unnecessary expectations on anyone. I'm looking for more of an outdoor activities buddy, but have no issue inviting you over to hang with my pup, share a little cannabis and watch some movies at times.

I am STD free and absolutely down to retest/share results before we ever decided to hangout. I am 5'7 with a pretty fit build and trying to stay more active. I love taking my pup on hikes and being outdoors camping, fishing, indoor rock climbing, roadtripping, exploring.. I can also really enjoy a lazy day indoors binging shows like It's Always Sunny, Breaking bad, Rick & Morty, etc.. or just get lost in random Youtube vids about cooking, comedy, nerdy or some mystery clips.. I am a pretty big film nerd and enjoy some open world videogames but wouldn't call myself a gamer. I'm not someone who ever gets too angry or irrational and prefer to live my life as stress free as possible, surround myself with positive energy and I absolutely always use humor and sarcasm to break any kind of awkward tension.

So if you're curious for a new friend to have some kinky new adventures with hit me up and let's see how we get along. We can chat until both feel comfortable to possibly meet. Let's talk about our favorite movies and brag about how awesome our pets are.

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u/UpDog_84 — 22 days ago