r/SanDiegoR4R

23 [T4M] #LaJolla - Boy with a Pussy looking for Dating or FWB

• **You should be fit, masculine, and under 40. I'm not into trans / females / threesome / couples / gay men. No exceptions to any of this.**

• **Be ready to send a face pic here when I ask for one. Not adding you elsewhere. No "talking for a little bit" first. Non-negotiable. Yes I reciprocate.**

Looking for light dating or close FWBs. I live in San Diego but my parents are in LA so open to both!

"T" is the only relevant R4R option; I'm intersex, not FTM.

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u/fig_nectar — 3 days ago

31 [t4m] #missionvalley- petite asian here

Hi there picky 5’6 130lbs clean disease free Asian sissy here. Looking for clean athletic to muscular type white boys. Really good with hands and a huge pleaser here. Possibly looking for ongoing. Check profile for more info and pics thanks

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u/No-Yogurtcloset8176 — 4 days ago

24 [T4M] near UCSD — thicc latina host for guy who wants to be milked and worshipped

5’6” thicc trans latina with medium length dark hair and a cute gothic/alt vibe, a fat ass, and nice breasts. Really into body worship like SeeHimFuck content lately…

Prefer to host before 3pm this week.

DDF 1 8 - 30ish only Into guys who are taller than me, 6”+ (that’s how big I am), thin to fit. Military is a plus but not a need ~

**I will not accept chat if you do not send physical info (age, height, etc…) in the first message**. You should send photos after I accept your chat and I can share more or videos. I have pics and some videos on my profile~

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u/xiacyr — 5 days ago

52 [F4M] #Escondido - BBW Still Trying to go Dancing!

Hi!

I'm recently out of a three-year situationship and want to get back out there- but slowly. I've gotten interested in line dancing lately and want to go take some local beginner classes. Maybe you'd like to come with me?

I'm a single, 52 yo, mixed-race (Mexican/Caucasian) BBW woman who's up in Escondido. I've seen classes advertised all around the county, so I know we can find a fun place to go, maybe grab dinner, too. Who knows? I do like to do other things, too, but thought this might be a good way to meet up with someone. I like other kinds of dancing, too!

I'm also interested in all the kissing, necking, and flirty stuff a good night of dancing can lead to.

I am not looking for casual fun. I'd like something FWB-like with the potential for more. If I like you I want to do things with you! I prefer white guys between 42 and 55. I'd love it if you're a little bit country, but that's not required. Just kinda attracted to that Southern Charm/Country Boy/Polite way some of you guys have. Please be single or unattached, like me. :)

Hope to hear from you!

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u/52_Teacher_760 — 4 days ago

35 [MF4A] #sandiego she wants to suck some dick tonight

We’re leaving town tomorrow and want to make the last night worth it. 35 fit. No doms. Just someone who wants to get off and is clean

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u/Fluent_dave — 5 days ago

18[F4M] #EastLake - I'm an 18yo curious girl still looking to explore. Got drunk at a bar yesterday and didn't even get some action. Anybody wanna help a girl out?

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u/SweetieSunny_ — 6 days ago

30 [MF4A] #SanDiego couple visiting till Sunday.

Is Thad’s weird? Are there any adult arcades or anything similar to other sex clubs? Also looking for F, MF, or a potential M. DDF.

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u/Fluent_dave — 7 days ago

24 [T4M] Asian Baddie Hosting Muscle his Morning UTC LA JOLLA Gloryhole FantSY

Femme Pink Asian ....model type ...Hosting Muscle or Bodybuilder Types for Gloryhole FanTSY....

Hosting in UTC La Jolla, free parking, easy access, discretion assured.

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u/Frozenkoi — 6 days ago

23 [T4M] #BankersHill- Half Asian TS looking

Half Asian TS girlie here looking for mild to wild fun with fit men. Last time I posted I met up with two guys:).

I’m 5’2, 118, and 22. Send stats and pics in your first message for a reply. I cant host unfortunately but can travel.

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u/Sad-Potato-3262 — 8 days ago

24 [F4M] #vista looking for a discreet playmate

I'm 24, only been with my fiance and our wedding is October 2027 so I want to have some fun before then and figured what better way then to be the complete opposite of myself and become someone's regular fuck toy until the wedding. My fiance doesn't know I'm trying to do this so I'd like to keep it that way but I'm not against a little risk play as well.

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u/Strudeliris — 8 days ago

30 [F4A] #Carlsbad - Looking for a real "friend" with benefits situation maybe???

Go ahead and brace yourself for some reading cause I'm kind of an over explainer when I write.

Am I stupid for posting here? Yes. Will I regret this. Probably. Will anything come of it? Most likely not.

Okay, I am a person with very few friends. Or social interactions in general. I would love to go to parties and bars and be crazy and wild. But I can't. I don't know how. I am the person who walks by a bar three times too embarrassed to go in and then drives home. I have never really had close friendships. I'm not sure how to do that either. Generally, I just don't want to feel so alone all the time.

It feels like I am incapable of having friends without having sex with them. So I guess I'm just taking out the guessing part?

I do not like how much I like sex. It makes life very difficult, especially with how much of a shut-in I tend to be. So I would really like a genuine friend. Even better if you have other friends who I could hang out with. And stuff. But I'm getting ahead of myself. I don't like being a sexual object, despite very much seeing myself that way, and it's frustrating feeling like the only interactions I have with people outside of work are sexual in nature. Partially my fault, I am aware, but maybe we could be regular friends? Who also have sex?

Is that just a relationship? I don't fucking know. I still don't really understand the difference between friendships and relationships minus the sex part. So maybe? Don't know.

This is probably going to be too long and rambly, I apologize. Let's just go over the specifics of what I'm looking for.

I'm super insecure about my height so I'd prefer you to be taller than me (I'm 5'9). I would love to have someone to work out with (especially since like where all the regular gyms in Carlsbad? And what the fuck are pilates and why is that the only thing nearby?) I like nerdy things like video games and ttrpgs and would love to find some groups up in North county for that. I am in the process of moving so I won't be hosting at all until that's done and it would be super awesome if I didn't have to all the time, but it would also be nice to just meet up for drinks or something first?

Not deal breakers by any means, but would be awesome if you had a motorcycle and could help me with my Vespa or had a garage where I could work on my car.

As for sex stuff, I'd be happy if you just touch me all the time and tell me when to take my clothes off for you or whoever else. Happy to discuss any kinks or stuff you're into.

I am a socially inept tomboy who is often depressed and likes to wear fancy clothes. That is my post, thank you and good day.

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u/motifica — 12 days ago

31 [t4m] #missionvalley

Hi there picky 5’6 130lbs clean disease free Asian sissy here. Looking for clean athletic to muscular type white boys. Really good with hands and a huge pleaser here. Possibly looking for ongoing. Check profile for more info and pics thanks

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u/No-Yogurtcloset8176 — 9 days ago

29 [m4M] #ClairemontMesa - looking to give sloppy head and swallow for straight dick

Total bttmcd looking for dl straight dick to give sloppy throat and swallow. Love to deepthroat and get throatfucked. Down to host in clairemont area cum n go totally discreet. Come in, drop ur pants and I'll get to work and idm if u watch porn. Just wanna drain u. Please be clean like me. Pics in profile. Hmu with stats if u're down to bust a nut rn

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u/danimadric2026 — 10 days ago

28[F4M]#cityheight- homeGloryhole fun looking 4 young circumcised D

looking for nice circumcised penis to milk \~must to be clean ddf

must clean and no smelly. Circumcised only

Send me photo including your age & race & next availability otherwise i wont reply.
i am looking for age under 35 only. K!k in my profile

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u/z_wonderland — 12 days ago