u/UrDreamDom_71

I'm looking for something simple and casual to start, perhaps with the potential to develop.

I am a naturally dominant Equalitarian Dom who has fully explored the world of BDSM over the years. I enjoy control through pleasure, praise, positive coaching, and caring leadership. As a dominant I seek to create a dynamic space where you can flourish, be free through your submission, and feel safe, loved, and respected. I will be your emotional rock, and your safe harbor in a storm. In return, I want to be the focus of your energy, your love, sexual desires, and for you to be my refuge in a crazy world. Take care of me, as I care for you.

For me kinks are to a degree superficial as it is the mental and emotional connection between Dominant and submissive that is essential. The kinks are the rewards for the relationship.

However, I do have my favorites; intellect, conversation, good food, edging, orgasm overload, bondage, some impact play esp OTK spanking, and lots of graphic dirty talking. Stockings and heels are my kryptonite! Busty women, corsets - essential!

Much more to share once we are talking. Oh yes, big fan of the Oxford comma!!!

I’m well-educated with multiple graduate and post grad degrees, former soldier, openly anti-MAGA, long/divorced, with adult children, no pets either four legged or two, and few vices other than a long list of pleasure kinks. I am professionally employed in a high-pressure leadership role. I am personally dynamic, outgoing, happy and kind person.

I seek a submissive PARTNER in all things, not just kink. I enjoy a submissive who flourishes under the leadership of an ethical, moral, mentally, and physically strong man who knows what he wants in life, from a submissive, and who can communicate! (Yes, a unicorn among men, one who communicates!!!) Ideally, she is someone who either wants to learn about D/s, or revisit past experiences.

You should be SINGLE, ideally over 40, and emotionally available, intelligent. You are a conversationalist, dynamic, a foodie, and have more in your world than work, your phone, and the gym.

You are the woman who longs for her protective Dom to take the weight from her shoulders, to provide a place where she can let go, and find calm. In short, the classic freedom through submission dichotomy. I am especially drawn to women who IRL are in-charge, the leader, or the problem solver, that classic oldest daughter who gets shit done and pretends she doesn’t want praise or recognition, yet who longs to hear “Well Done!” and “Good Girl” from a man she respects and loves.

I know you exist.

I'm looking for something simple and casual to start, perhaps with the potential to develop.

I am a naturally dominant Equalitarian Dom who has fully explored the world of BDSM over the years. I enjoy control through pleasure, praise, positive coaching, and caring leadership. As a dominant I seek to create a dynamic space where you can flourish, be free through your submission, and feel safe, loved, and respected. I will be your emotional rock, and your safe harbor in a storm. In return, I want to be the focus of your energy, your love, sexual desires, and for you to be my refuge in a crazy world. Take care of me, as I care for you.

For me kinks are to a degree superficial as it is the mental and emotional connection between Dominant and submissive that is essential. The kinks are the rewards for the relationship.

However, I do have my favorites; intellect, conversation, good food, edging, orgasm overload, bondage, some impact play esp OTK spanking, and lots of graphic dirty talking. Stockings and heels are my kryptonite! Busty women, corsets - essential!

Much more to share once we are talking. Oh yes, big fan of the Oxford comma!!!

I’m well-educated with multiple graduate and post grad degrees, former soldier, openly anti-MAGA, long/divorced, with adult children, no pets either four legged or two, and few vices other than a long list of pleasure kinks. I am professionally employed in a high-pressure leadership role. I am personally dynamic, outgoing, happy and kind person.

I seek a submissive PARTNER in all things, not just kink. I enjoy a submissive who flourishes under the leadership of an ethical, moral, mentally, and physically strong man who knows what he wants in life, from a submissive, and who can communicate! (Yes, a unicorn among men, one who communicates!!!) Ideally, she is someone who either wants to learn about D/s, or revisit past experiences.

You should be SINGLE, ideally over 40, and emotionally available, intelligent. You are a conversationalist, dynamic, a foodie, and have more in your world than work, your phone, and the gym.

You are the woman who longs for her protective Dom to take the weight from her shoulders, to provide a place where she can let go, and find calm. In short, the classic freedom through submission dichotomy. I am especially drawn to women who IRL are in-charge, the leader, or the problem solver, that classic oldest daughter who gets shit done and pretends she doesn’t want praise or recognition, yet who longs to hear “Well Done!” and “Good Girl” from a man she respects and loves.

I know you exist.

I'm looking for something simple and casual to start, perhaps with the potential to develop.

I am a naturally dominant Equalitarian Dom who has fully explored the world of BDSM over the years. I enjoy control through pleasure, praise, positive coaching, and caring leadership. As a dominant I seek to create a dynamic space where you can flourish, be free through your submission, and feel safe, loved, and respected. I will be your emotional rock, and your safe harbor in a storm. In return, I want to be the focus of your energy, your love, sexual desires, and for you to be my refuge in a crazy world. Take care of me, as I care for you.

For me kinks are to a degree superficial as it is the mental and emotional connection between Dominant and submissive that is essential. The kinks are the rewards for the relationship.

However, I do have my favorites; intellect, conversation, good food, edging, orgasm overload, bondage, some impact play esp OTK spanking, and lots of graphic dirty talking. Stockings and heels are my kryptonite! Busty women, corsets - essential!

Much more to share once we are talking. Oh yes, big fan of the Oxford comma!!!

I’m well-educated with multiple graduate and post grad degrees, former soldier, openly anti-MAGA, long/divorced, with adult children, no pets either four legged or two, and few vices other than a long list of pleasure kinks. I am professionally employed in a high-pressure leadership role. I am personally dynamic, outgoing, happy and kind person.

I seek a submissive PARTNER in all things, not just kink. I enjoy a submissive who flourishes under the leadership of an ethical, moral, mentally, and physically strong man who knows what he wants in life, from a submissive, and who can communicate! (Yes, a unicorn among men, one who communicates!!!) Ideally, she is someone who either wants to learn about D/s, or revisit past experiences.

You should be SINGLE, ideally over 40, and emotionally available, intelligent. You are a conversationalist, dynamic, a foodie, and have more in your world than work, your phone, and the gym.

You are the woman who longs for her protective Dom to take the weight from her shoulders, to provide a place where she can let go, and find calm. In short, the classic freedom through submission dichotomy. I am especially drawn to women who IRL are in-charge, the leader, or the problem solver, that classic oldest daughter who gets shit done and pretends she doesn’t want praise or recognition, yet who longs to hear “Well Done!” and “Good Girl” from a man she respects and loves.

I know you exist.

Kinky, experienced, dominant man who enjoys edging (perhaps in bondage) a woman with fingers, tongue, mouth, toys, vibes, anything, for as long as you can take before you become a thrashing, dripping quivering mass or desire. Then, making you cum until you can’t squirt anymore, can't cum anymore, can’t remember your name, and are completely wrecked.

OFC pre-play discussion on your firm limits, but then, free-use, no-limits, work you out until you cry mercy.

I'm very experienced, muscular, blond, professional, sane. I will host in a hotel for our mutual safety. Looking for the weekend.