28 [M4F] #online - Seeking a Dom or switch
Hi there, I'm Dane. I'm searching for a Dom to explore a mutually beneficial online dynamic. Something that brings both of us joy, excitement, and inspiration.
Something that we both look forward to. On the sfw side, I'm an artist.
I sing, and also write creative stories (focused on fantasy, psychology, and the human heart in contradiction with itself. I'm fascinated by what drives people to change, pursue their goals, or challenge their pre-established values.
I guess in some ways this is what I also pursue in BDSM. I've always been more on the dominant side but it never felt completely fulfilling. I think it's because I'm an overthinker.
I tend to prioritize my partner's pleasure, but I found out that letting go of my thoughts through submission is easier, by letting someone else pull the ropes.
But getting there is much harder than I thought, which is I believe a common challenge that women face as well.
I think the best satisfaction comes through exploring both the dominant and submissive aspects with the right person. But if you aren't a switch, but rather a pure Dom, that's alright as well.
I value clear communication and expectations. I workout and take care of myself. Would love to meet someone eager to explore this with. As for kinks and limits, I would like to discuss this in private. Some things I'm okay with, while others, only if the connection is right and trust is established.
Just to note, I'm not into findom or other forms of paid services. It just isn't for me. I don't want a fake connection. I want someone genuinely interested.