Sub pushing his limits for me
So me (F29) and my sub (M34) are still very new to our dynamic although we have been dating for a couple of years but only recently I started feeling confident enough to experiment more with my dominant side.
I always knew he was very submissive and loves to be used and humiliated and enjoys some pain as well. We have been into pegging since before starting our dynamic and I know he loves how much I enjoy it.
But last time he admitted that sometimes he pushes through pain because of how much he can sense I am into it and that he would take more if thats what I needed. He has never used his safe word and I am worried he would never do it. I know it's totally okay for him to enjoy pain but it made me feel like, more than enjoying the pain he was just enjoying me enjoying the pegging.
Is it weird that I am worried about this? Like I said I am very new to this role. I did talk to him about it and made him promise me that he would tell me if things got too intense but now I worry that he just said it to pacify me..
Any advice? Am I overthinking?