How do I bring BDSM into my Vanilla Boyfriends Mind
My 26m boyfriend and I 22f have been dating for 4 years, we've been having sex very regularly but its always the same doggy / missionary / oral. Nothing ever changes.
I've recently been thinking about BDSM, and quite honestly the idea of me being shackled and *done* without being able to push back or close my legs really turns me on.
The problem is, my bf has no interest in this, I tried talking to him about it and his response was "thats not real sex thats just porn, get your head out the gutter".
Im super frustrated because on one hand we're having sex all the time but in the other my mind is craving something more, something more animalistic, and I just know he wont listen or see eye to eye with me. I have no idea what to do.
I'd really appreciate some advice please.