33 [F4M] Toronto: Looking for a cuddle buddy and maybe more
Looking to connect for cuddles and chats while watching a TV show or movie once a week or so. Plus some walks when it’s warmer!
It’s nicer to watch something with company, less lonely. I like being big spoon and little spoon, and really wrapping my body around the person I’m cuddling. Rubbing shoulders and arms, little caring touches, playing with hair, making the other person feel cared for and wanted. It’s just so nice to cuddle with someone you care about. Very open to more if there’s a connection, but I don’t want to rush anything physical, I want to take time to get to know one another. Also happy just to stay cuddle buddies or be friends if there’s nothing there.
Me
Single, white, 5’3, girl next door kind of looks, average weight on the leaner side, chest-length hair. Somewhat active. I like a lot of nerdy stuff and have a bunch of diverse interests (baseball and hockey for watching, Marvel over DC, haven't gotten around to The Boys final season but looking forward to it, Apple TV shows, MTG Commander, board games...) Don’t have kids or pets. Don’t smoke. Located along line 1. I’d say more but arctic-shift captures everything forever lol it’s really spooky!
Looking for
I don’t want this to be a laundry list but Rule 1 says to follow the post criteria, so here’s what I do and don’t care about.
- General looks: Looking for someone average, not really into the "tall fit masculine handsome" type described in the May metapost. please no hotties we won't be compatible haha
- Body type: heavier than me but not completely inactive, I like to be active with friends and partners so we’d be a bit incompatible. I like a tummy and being held by someone physically bigger than me is <3. Little bit of muscle nice, too much muscle nah - I like McDonald’s lol.
- Height: not really a factor, everyone’s taller than me. I don’t really want to rule anyone out, but because I see so many women who have a height preference, I will say that I tend to prefer someone closer to me in height. That doesn’t mean I won’t talk to a tall man, I just want to make it clear that I am open to all.
- Race: I don't care, genuinely. Personality and compatibility matter most.
- Kids: don’t mind unless you’re a 24/7 dad because that would make cuddles hard!
- Distance: 60 minute commute one way is my limit, preferably within Toronto.
- Your living situation: I am flexible, just don’t want to meet your parents or your ex if I come over lol.
- Age: +/- 7 years of my age roughly, a bit older is ok but I don’t want to go under 26.
- Pets: I am not allergic, I like cats and dogs.
- Political views: I don’t talk much about politics and would be open to voting for most parties depending on their leader… but if you voted for Ford and/or like Trump, we wouldn’t get along.
Absolute nos
- Cigarette smoking: I don’t smoke and I don’t like the taste, sorry
- Short-term visitor: I am looking for something longer term
- Cheating
- Couples: I am only attracted to men
Personality is more important to me than looks (minus the body type thing because that’s my cuddling preference) so no pressure to send a pic right away.
I also don’t want you to spend a lot of time on your message so I put some questions below. Please do not feel obligated to answer every single one. I will update if I think of more!
Do you like cuddling/physical touch? What TV shows and movies do you like? Is there anything you haven’t watched yet that you’d like to start? What are some of your favourite nerdy things/what do you like to do for fun? Were you also very excited for a new release on Tuesday May 12 because I am a big fan haha... And if you haven't read DCC what are you waiting for
PS: If this post says I'm still looking, I'm still looking, so don't worry about my inbox being flooded.