u/Vegetable_Land_4130

I usually have these conflicting feelings about this desire to be a sub but I still enjoy it. But more often than not I'd come accross some posts that describes how harmful bdsm can be and it gets me thinking. Rn i also read about this thing where people talked about PTSD even from the "safe" bdsm and how after are is technically a cover up for "abuse" that happens during the play. Now I know a real dom doesn't think of it that way ever and respects the subscription boundaries and everything. But are we overlooking the implications for our pleasure?

Idk if I am phrasing this very nicely but basically asking if it's right or wrong given it might have longterm psychological impacts and possibly could be an unhealthy coping mechanism