36 [M4F] #Central Illinois -- Are you my person?
I’m 36M in IL — tall, blue-eyed, a few tattoos, in decent shape, married, dad, and somehow responsible for one dog, way too many plants (a few are doing great, a few are definitely judging me), and two awesome kiddos.
I tend to come across as the “nice/wholesome” guy. Like the one you’d ask to help move a couch, and I’d show up on time with coffee and probably stay longer than I meant to.
Which… yeah, that’s fair.
Lately though, I’ve had this quiet feeling that I’ve faded into the background a bit. I’m the dependable one, the guy who handles things and doesn’t make a fuss, and I think I got a little too used to being that person.
People say I’m a “catch,” which is nice, but I don’t always feel like one. I’m there, I care, I just don’t always feel very *noticed*. Maybe I’m just tired. Maybe I’ve been in my own head too much. Maybe I need to get out more or stop overthinking in the bathroom mirror. Just felt like putting it somewhere instead of keeping it in my head.
If you’re looking for a genuine connection, want to share something special and see where things go…come say hi. Tell me what you like to lose track of time doing, or your favorite sweet treat, or…anything really ☺️