u/Velocirasstor

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I’ve done this twice before. Once for a year. Once for only a couple of months.

Im 5'8, 190. Reasonably cute, definitely funny, and I need to get out of the house more. I love video games, TV, movies. Especially thrillers or mystery. If someone is catchin' a stabbin', Im watching it. Im incredibly affectionate and will want to get together often. Even if its just for lunch or a quick make out session.

I can be very kinky, and lean more dominant in bed. But more on that in private.

I’m not here for online only or fantasy. I’m here because I believe two people can build something \*real\* even if it lives slightly outside the lines.

I’m looking for a long-term, stable AP relationship rooted in mutual respect, consistency, and genuine connection. The kind where we actually show up for each other. Where attention isn’t rationed, communication isn’t a guessing game, and chemistry isn’t just assumed, it’s felt. I want to be obsessed with each other. Crazy about each other.

I want spark, desire, that smile when your phone lights up. But I also want depth. Conversation that flows. Trust that builds. A sense of “this matters” on both sides. A girlfriend. A lover.

I’m drawn to smart, emotionally intelligent women who have a dark sense of humor and understand that almost everything can be laughed at. Im a dad with a dad bod. Im far from perfect, I dont expect you to be. But you should care about your appearance. Im drawn to personality and our chemistry far more than I am a pretty body. You can be married or single with a married boyfriend kink.

I value reliability, curiosity, and kindness, and I give those freely in return. I’m not looking to be someone’s escape pod or secret hobby; I’m looking for a partner in this space. Someone who understands discretion \*and\* commitment, passion \*and\* patience.

If you’re emotionally available, communicative, and interested in creating something steady, meaningful, fun, and long lasting, I might be the one for you.

If you’re afraid of falling head over heels for each other - dont reach out.

I’ve done this twice before. Once for a year. Once for only a couple of months.

Im 5'8, 190. Reasonably cute, definitely funny, and I need to get out of the house more. I love video games, TV, movies. Especially thrillers or mystery. If someone is catchin' a stabbin', Im watching it. Im incredibly affectionate and will want to get together often. Even if its just for lunch or a quick make out session.

I can be very kinky, and lean more dominant in bed. But more on that in private.

I’m not here for online only or fantasy. I’m here because I believe two people can build something *real* even if it lives slightly outside the lines.

I’m looking for a long-term, stable AP relationship rooted in mutual respect, consistency, and genuine connection. The kind where we actually show up for each other. Where attention isn’t rationed, communication isn’t a guessing game, and chemistry isn’t just assumed, it’s felt. I want to be obsessed with each other. Crazy about each other.

I want spark, desire, that smile when your phone lights up. But I also want depth. Conversation that flows. Trust that builds. A sense of “this matters” on both sides. A girlfriend. A lover.

I’m drawn to smart, emotionally intelligent women who have a dark sense of humor and understand that almost everything can be laughed at. Im a dad with a dad bod. Im far from perfect, I dont expect you to be. But you should care about your appearance. Im drawn to personality and our chemistry far more than I am a pretty body. You can be married or single with a married boyfriend kink.

I value reliability, curiosity, and kindness, and I give those freely in return. I’m not looking to be someone’s escape pod or secret hobby; I’m looking for a partner in this space. Someone who understands discretion *and* commitment, passion *and* patience.

If you’re emotionally available, communicative, and interested in creating something steady, meaningful, fun, and long lasting, I might be the one for you.

If you’re afraid of falling head over heels for each other - dont reach out.

I’ve done this twice before. Once for a year. Once for only a couple of months.

Im 5'8, 190. Reasonably cute, definitely funny, and I need to get out of the house more. I love video games, TV, movies. Especially thrillers or mystery. If someone is catchin' a stabbin', Im watching it. Im incredibly affectionate and will want to get together often. Even if its just for lunch or a quick make out session.

I can be very kinky, and lean more dominant in bed. But more on that in private.

I’m not here for online only or fantasy. I’m here because I believe two people can build something \*real,\* even if it lives slightly outside the lines.

I’m looking for a long-term, stable AP relationship rooted in mutual respect, consistency, and genuine connection. The kind where we actually show up for each other. Where attention isn’t rationed, communication isn’t a guessing game, and chemistry isn’t just assumed, it’s felt. I want to be obsessed with each other. Crazy about each other.

I want spark, desire, that smile when your phone lights up. But I also want depth. Conversation that flows. Trust that builds. A sense of “this matters” on both sides. A girlfriend. A lover.

I’m drawn to smart, emotionally intelligent women who have a dark sense of humor and understand that almost everything can be laughed at. Im a dad with a dad bod. Im far from perfect, I dont expect you to be. But you should care about your appearance. Im drawn to personality and our chemistry far more than I am a pretty body. You can be married or single with a married boyfriend kink.

I value reliability, curiosity, and kindness, and I give those freely in return. I’m not looking to be someone’s escape pod or secret hobby; I’m looking for a partner in this space. Someone who understands discretion \*and\* commitment, passion \*and\* patience.

If you’re emotionally available, communicative, and interested in creating something steady, meaningful, fun, and long lasting.

If you’re afraid of falling head over heels for each other - dont reach out.

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I’ve done this twice before. Once for a year. Once for only a couple of months.

Im 5'8, 190. Reasonably cute, definitely funny, and I need to get out of the house more. I love video games, TV, movies. Especially thrillers or mystery. If someone is catchin' a stabbin', Im watching it. Im incredibly affectionate and will want to get together often. Even if its just for lunch or a quick make out session.

I can be very kinky, and lean more dominant in bed. But more on that in private.

I’m not here for online only or fantasy. I’m here because I believe two people can build something \*real,\* even if it lives slightly outside the lines.

I’m looking for a long-term, stable AP relationship rooted in mutual respect, consistency, and genuine connection. The kind where we actually show up for each other. Where attention isn’t rationed, communication isn’t a guessing game, and chemistry isn’t just assumed, it’s felt. I want to be obsessed with each other. Crazy about each other.

I want spark, desire, that smile when your phone lights up. But I also want depth. Conversation that flows. Trust that builds. A sense of “this matters” on both sides. A girlfriend. A lover.

I’m drawn to smart, emotionally intelligent women who have a dark sense of humor and understand that almost everything can be laughed at. Im a dad with a dad bod. Im far from perfect, I dont expect you to be. But you should care about your appearance. Im drawn to personality and our chemistry far more than I am a pretty body. You can be married or single with a married boyfriend kink.

I value reliability, curiosity, and kindness, and I give those freely in return. I’m not looking to be someone’s escape pod or secret hobby; I’m looking for a partner in this space. Someone who understands discretion \*and\* commitment, passion \*and\* patience.

If you’re emotionally available, communicative, and interested in creating something steady, meaningful, fun, and long lasting.

If you’re afraid of falling head over heels for each other - dont reach out.

​

I’ve done this twice before. Once for a year. Once for only a couple of months.

Im 5'8, 190. Reasonably cute, definitely funny, and I need to get out of the house more. I love video games, TV, movies. Especially thrillers or mystery. If someone is catchin' a stabbin', Im watching it. Im incredibly affectionate and will want to get together often. Even if its just for lunch or a quick make out session.

I can be very kinky, and lean more dominant in bed. But more on that in private.

I’m not here for online only or fantasy. I’m here because I believe two people can build something *real,* even if it lives slightly outside the lines.

I’m looking for a long-term, stable AP relationship rooted in mutual respect, consistency, and genuine connection. The kind where we actually show up for each other. Where attention isn’t rationed, communication isn’t a guessing game, and chemistry isn’t just assumed, it’s felt. I want to be obsessed with each other. Crazy about each other.

I want spark, desire, that smile when your phone lights up. But I also want depth. Conversation that flows. Trust that builds. A sense of “this matters” on both sides. A girlfriend. A lover.

I’m drawn to smart, emotionally intelligent women who have a dark sense of humor and understand that almost everything can be laughed at. Im a dad with a dad bod. Im far from perfect, I dont expect you to be. But you should care about your appearance. Im drawn to personality and our chemistry far more than I am a pretty body. You can be married or single with a married boyfriend kink.

I value reliability, curiosity, and kindness, and I give those freely in return. I’m not looking to be someone’s escape pod or secret hobby; I’m looking for a partner in this space. Someone who understands discretion *and* commitment, passion *and* patience.

If you’re emotionally available, communicative, and interested in creating something steady, meaningful, fun, and long lasting.

If you’re afraid of falling head over heels for each other - dont reach out.

Oh boy. Where to begin? Ive done this before, once for two years with an AP, and more recently just for a couple of months. Im funny, allegedly cute, and most importantly - sane.

Im looking for someone special. A best friend to share with, support each other, laugh with...and also be a dripping mess for each other. Two people just looking for any excuse to share little touches and flirt relentlessly until we can be alone.

Im 5'8, 190lbs. Dad bod. I like to lift heavy things, but I will eat the shit out of a cheeseburger. On the bright side, I can likely lift/carry you.

Im a pretty avid gamer. I love movies and TV shows that involve murder and mystery. If someone is catching a stabbin', I want to see it!

I love swimming, hiking, dogs. Getting nerdy about hobbies or listening to YOU nerd out about your hobbies.

I want to swap pics early, and am looking for someone local to meet with once every couple of weeks, or more frequently. Even if it's just lunch or making out somewhere sneaky.

I lean more dominant and very kinky in the bedroom. More on that in private.

My ideal AP:

height doesnt matter. Id like you to be reasonably height weight proportionate. I am not a perfect pretty princess and dont expect you to be. I find far more attraction and chemistry in your personality and how you handle yourself than I do your body alone.

You should want something long term with one affair partner. I wont be sleeping around, would prefer you dont either. Spouses are ok, of course. I dont mind if you're single and just want a married boyfriend, either. Safety and OpSec are paramount.

Effort and attention go a long ways. We have lives to tend to, but that's shouldn't stop us from frequently communicating.

I want to be obsessed with each other. Im not afraid of catching feelings. Im a romantic at heart, but chemistry should be there, Sexually and otherwise. I want to be counting down the days until our next plans together.

Are you out there?