u/Velvet_Brownie

23F24M First Timers Planning later this year

23F turning 24 soon and finally doing my first
Temptation trip this August.
Later this year my partner and I are planning
Hedonism too cuz we are exploring lifestyle and I'm trying to figure out which weeks are the absolute wildest.
Looking for the best mix of sexy, social, uninhibited people, and nights where things actually get crazy instead of everyone just flirting all night
I'm bi and definitely hoping to meet/play with other women while we're there too.
How open is everything really? Like... can you actually play around at the pool/beach, hook up in public areas, or is most of that just talk online?
I love the idea of getting my pussy eaten by another girls while sucking his dick at pool and being watched/exhibitionism and wanna know how far people actually go?
Are there real play parties/open play situations/ group fun happening depending on the week?
Which weeks would you recommend if we want the full "zero inhibitions, sexy chaos, unforgettable stories" experience?

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u/Velvet_Brownie — 3 days ago

23F24M First Timers planning later this year

23F turning 24 soon and finally doing my first
Temptation trip this August.
Later this year my partner and I are planning
Hedonism too cuz we are exploring lifestyle and I'm trying to figure out which weeks are the absolute wildest.
Looking for the best mix of sexy, social, uninhibited people, and nights where things actually get crazy instead of everyone just flirting all night
I'm bi and definitely hoping to meet/play with other women while we're there too.
How open is everything really? Like... can you actually play around at the pool/beach, hook up in public areas, or is most of that just talk online?
I love the idea of getting my pussy eaten by another girls while sucking his dick at pool and being watched/exhibitionism and wanna know how far people actually go?
Are there real play parties/open play situations/ group fun happening depending on the week?
Which weeks would you recommend if we want the full "zero inhibitions, sexy chaos, unforgettable stories" experience?

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u/Velvet_Brownie — 3 days ago

Need honest advice from people who’ve stayed there 😈

Trying to decide between the Garden Room with Playful Experience and the Tower Room, but the Tower upgrade is like $350 more.
For people who know the vibe there is the Garden Room actually spacious/private enough for late-night fun or even a small orgy situation? 👀 Or does it feel too cramped with other Couple?
Also curious about the social dynamic there:
Do most couples prefer hosting in their own room, or does everyone usually end up migrating to someone else’s suite/Tower room for the bigger space?
Trying to understand whether the upgrade is genuinely worth it for the experience, or if Garden Rooms already work perfectly fine for playful groups.
TIA

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u/Velvet_Brownie — 4 days ago

Need honest advice from people who’ve stayed there 😈

Trying to decide between the Garden Room with Playful Experience and the Tower Room, but the Tower upgrade is like $350 more.
For people who know the vibe there is the Garden Room actually spacious/private enough for late-night fun or even a small orgy situation? 👀 Or does it feel too cramped with other Couple?
Also curious about the social dynamic there:
Do most couples prefer hosting in their own room, or does everyone usually end up migrating to someone else’s suite/Tower room for the bigger space?
Trying to understand whether the upgrade is genuinely worth it for the experience, or if Garden Rooms already work perfectly fine for playful groups.
TIA

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u/Velvet_Brownie — 4 days ago

First time at Temptation + Desire as a hot 23yo couple… how wild do theme nights REALLY get? 🔥

My partner and I are both 23 and finally booking Temptation + Desire this August 😈🔥
We’re already in the lifestyle, flirt a lot, and are open to swapping… but this will be our first actual resort experience and we honestly want the full dirty truth about what to expect 👀
How slutty do girls actually dress for theme nights? Like tiny lingerie and pasties level? Or does everyone just talk big online? 😂
Also curious:
• What’s considered normal there vs “too much”?
• How easy is it to meet couples who are actually down to play?
• Are people mostly soft swap/full swap/open play?
• What are the biggest turn-ons and turn-offs socially?
• How do experienced couples signal interest without making things awkward?
• Are there hidden rules nobody tells first-timers?
• And what’s the craziest thing you saw happen there? 👀🔥
We’re super social, love sexual energy, and definitely want to explore while we’re there… just trying to understand the vibe before we show up half naked and accidentally innocent 😂
Experienced couples — give us your best advice, warnings, stories, outfit ideas, or things you wish you knew before your first trip.

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u/Velvet_Brownie — 5 days ago

First time at Temptation + Desire as a hot 23yo couple… how wild do theme nights REALLY get? 🔥

My partner and I are both 23 and finally booking Temptation + Desire this August 😈🔥
We’re already in the lifestyle, flirt a lot, and are open to swapping… but this will be our first actual resort experience and we honestly want the full dirty truth about what to expect 👀
How slutty do girls actually dress for theme nights? Like tiny lingerie and pasties level? Or does everyone just talk big online? 😂
Also curious:
• What’s considered normal there vs “too much”?
• How easy is it to meet couples who are actually down to play?
• Are people mostly soft swap/full swap/open play?
• What are the biggest turn-ons and turn-offs socially?
• How do experienced couples signal interest without making things awkward?
• Are there hidden rules nobody tells first-timers?
• And what’s the craziest thing you saw happen there? 👀🔥
We’re super social, love sexual energy, and definitely want to explore while we’re there… just trying to understand the vibe before we show up half naked and accidentally innocent 😂
Experienced couples — give us your best advice, warnings, stories, outfit ideas, or things you wish you knew before your first trip.

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u/Velvet_Brownie — 5 days ago

First time at Temptation + Desire as a hot 23yo couple… how wild do theme nights REALLY get? 🔥

My partner and I are both 23 and finally booking Temptation + Desire this August 😈🔥
We’re already in the lifestyle, flirt a lot, and are open to swapping… but this will be our first actual resort experience and we honestly want the full dirty truth about what to expect 👀
How slutty do girls actually dress for theme nights? Like tiny lingerie and pasties level? Or does everyone just talk big online? 😂
Also curious:
• What’s considered normal there vs “too much”?
• How easy is it to meet couples who are actually down to play?
• Are people mostly soft swap/full swap/open play?
• What are the biggest turn-ons and turn-offs socially?
• How do experienced couples signal interest without making things awkward?
• Are there hidden rules nobody tells first-timers?
• And what’s the craziest thing you saw happen there? 👀🔥
We’re super social, love sexual energy, and definitely want to explore while we’re there… just trying to understand the vibe before we show up half naked and accidentally innocent 😂
Experienced couples — give us your best advice, warnings, stories, outfit ideas, or things you wish you knew before your first trip.

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u/Velvet_Brownie — 5 days ago