r/HedonismII

Hey Everyone,

I'm a single guy who is planning to visit Hedo at some point this year. I'm actually a local living on the island and I've always heard about the mythical sex stories of Hedo so I need to come check it out. I am currently single and Bisexual and prefer to visit by myself so as to really explore my first time there at my own pace and without the limits of a partners plans for the weekend.

- When is a good time for a single guy to visit?
- Any Advice for a single guy approaching couples?
- Any advice for a bisexual man approaching other men?

First timers can make are mind up August 27 sep 1 or sep 19 -sep 24

I have been with Fluffernutters July Takeover several times. Loved it. I missed it this year, though. Now considering either the Fluffs “FlufferWeen “ or Topless Travel Sexy Seniors in mid October.

Anyone who has done both that can offer a comparison?

FWIW… I’m on the older end of the spectrum. And solo. I go with no expectations. Just like being naked with fun people. I’m easy going, friendly. Can carry on a conversation. Not the least bit pushy. The Fluffs have been warm and welcoming.

Just wondered if I’d fit as well with the Silvers.

Thoughts.

Me and my husband are looking to visit for our first time but not really sure what would suit us best as for what week would come based on the dynamic we have. I’m 46f he’s 60m and we have a cuck/hotwife dynamic. Black men are my preference but I don’t discriminate. Just looking for some guidance from some experienced couples. Thank you in advance

What’s the gambling theme night like at hedo? Is it something people attend or do they go off to other things?

So the question is, how would a couple, who're swingers, where the male half is open to bi-play, but the female is not, fit in? We belong to a local group that's bi-friendly and he's had some experiences and has enjoyed himself, he's comfortable(ish) with playing with a male.

Would we be better off going on a "regular" week, instead? Or is the bi-week crowd going to be OK with a straight F / Bi(ish) M?

Just received word that they will be closed starting July 1, 2026 through mid September. Just an FYI.😩

Trying to plan a last minute trip in August but I keep getting an error at check out for ““AVS” System shows billing address is incorrect”. Called my bank to ensure things were correct before calling the resort. The resort stated they could force the reservation but I would need to set up a wire transfer. Anyone else had issues similar while booking?

just as the title says. thank you in advance!

Update: False alarm. We are BOTH good to go!!!!! Yeehaw

Just wondering if anyone has been to Hedo during late October. Ive read that it is the rainy season,, but the rainfall comes in short bursts. Basically wondering if it is worth it or should we wait until November or December.

Thanks!