u/Venus9Goddess

People assume every Domme loves being called the same things and that’s definitely not true.

For me, there are honorifics I naturally enjoy:

Goddess, Mistress, Queen all classics for a reason. They just feel right fir me and my personality.

Then there are ones I’m not particularly drawn to. Just because another Domme loves a title doesn’t mean it fits me especially Princess it just doesn't do it for me.

And interestingly, there have been a few that grew on me over time that I never expected. Like mommy, I initially thought absolutely not only to later hear it used in the right context and think hmm, maybe I get it now. And in certain cases I live being called daddy too.

Dynamics evolve, preferences shift, and sometimes the right person makes a title hit differently.

So I’m curious:

What honorifics do you love?

Which ones are a hard no for you?

And are there any you unexpectedly grew to like?

As for subs as there some favorites you like? And similarly don't like?

I want to hear your thoughts. 👀

I’ve had quite a few subs ask about in-person sessions recently, so I figured I’d address it here.

Yes, I am open to in-person sessions. However, I do not meet strangers from the internet without first establishing a trusted dynamic. That means months of getting to know each other, consistent service, and multiple video sessions before I would even consider meeting in person.

Being open to in-person sessions does not mean everyone will have access to that. Meeting me in person is a privilege, not an entitlement. And to be very clear my time is not cheap, and neither is my attention. Building that level of trust requires consistency, effort, and investment. If you’re looking for immediate access, shortcuts, or free emotional labor, I am not the Domme for you.

For personal safety and privacy reasons, I do not allow subs in my home. Any in-person session would take place in a mutually agreed upon location that I feel comfortable with. My safety, comfort, and boundaries will always come first.

Do not come into my DMs asking for help when you haven’t even done the bare minimum.

No age verification, a one-week-old account, and zero effort put into your profile and you’re wondering why you’re not getting subs? This isn’t a “post once and get sends”

Being a domme takes time. It takes research, consistency, and intention. You need to understand the dynamic and kink, build a presence, and actually show people why they should invest their time and money in you.

Put in the work. Learn the basics. Develop your brand. Then, if you’re still stuck, ask for guidance.

But don’t expect results without effort.

I have no problem helping newer dommes but not if I don't see you trying to help yourself first.

Oh, and insult to injury they don't even follow me. 🙄🙄

I just saw a post asking for feet content, saying to leave your age and other sizes below. There were about 75 comments and some of you were listing everything short of your birthdays.

Yes, I get that some of those replies were sellers trying to make a quick sale but the dommes jumping in just as eagerly, volunteering information and scrambling for attention? It came across as thirsty, not powerful.

As a domme, your presence should never feel like you’re competing for validation. When you immediately hand over personal details in a crowded comment section, especially in response to a low-effort bait post, you strip away that mystique. You’re no longer being dominant you’re presenting yourself for approval on the hopes of getting picked and possibility a few dollars. Show some decorum, you are better than that!!

Any dommes have a love hate relationship with a sub, like you can't stand them but thoroughly enjoy putting them in their place?

Personally I have one and I take far too much pleasure in torturing him during sessions because of how he acts in our regular conversations.

I haven’t been very active on here lately as I’ve been in the middle of moving, putting most of my energy into getting everything sorted.

Even so, over these past few weeks I haven’t lost a single sub. They have been patiently waiting for my messages, offering a space to vent, share a laugh, and sending a few housewarming gifts to celebrate the move.

I feel incredibly lucky to have such loyal and understanding subs, especially these days where they seem to disappear in seconds.

I’m looking forward to finding some time this week to go live again and start sessions back up. I’ve missed them and being active on here.