Holy fucking shit, stop complimenting women right away.
Seriously, this is the lamest shit ever. Fucking stop it.
Almost every day there‘s some poor schmuck on here that relates a story about approaching a girl with a compliment and 99% of the time it doesn’t work.
When you do this shit, it’s like folding after you ante up in a poker game. You’re giving away your reason for talking to her. Yes, congratulations you ante’d up and played the game for a few seconds, it’s the right first move.
But man, ya’ll really gotta look up some basic openers that don’t hinge on feeding her a compliment.
If you’re determined to comment an observation about her looks, at least do it in a way that creates a little intrigue (tell her she looks like a heartbreaker, tell her that she looks like she’s gonna get you in trouble, etc).
If those are still too courageous for you, then comment on her clothes. Fucking something that provides a pathway towards a conversation.
Because realistically, what is a girl supposed to do with a compliment? How does a conversation happen after you’ve given away your purpose for approaching her? On some level, she already thinks you find her attractive since you’ve taken the risk to go talk to a stranger.
Women should earn compliments from you, that’s the frame you should be holding. Don’t pump up their ego while sacrificing your own.
Because at the end of the day, who do you wanna be? That sweet guy who gave her a compliment? Or the guy plowing her guts out?
-vibejuice out