u/Visible_Dentist_3981

A couple of days ago I posted about my wife's unexpected comments after a few drinks that where we go from here is up to me.

Given that some drinks were involved I took it with a pinch of salt, but it nonetheless spurred a great conversation the next day. We basically agreed that exploring the fantasy together is still something we want to do.

Yesterday, I asked my wife to pop into the sex shop near her work and buy something to surprise me. 'Happy to oblige!' she replied.

All day I was waiting at home looking forward to seeing what she had chosen. When she returned she opened her work bag and slowly pulled out an enormous dildo.

'I can't wait to have this inside me' she said.

Needless to say, I was immediately hard.

A bit of background. I've had fantasies about my wife seeing other men for many years, and around three years ago I found the courage to tell her. She was surprised (unsurprisingly, perhaps) but understanding. This led to a period of intense communication as we fully opened up to each other.

Since then, the idea of her becoming a hotwife has been central to the fantasy side of our sex lives. We've had some great experiences with her finding men to sext and video chat with, but it's not progressed to meeting anyone in real life yet.

Fast forward to last night. My wife had had a few drinks, enough to feel uninhibited but not enough to forget anything. We were having sex and then she said:

'I can be a slut for you. If you want it. I can spread my legs for another man. It's up to you. Or I can just flirt with other men and only you can fuck me. I can be whatever you want.'

I was honestly a bit overwhelmed, and to my shame I didn't really say anything. Any ideas on where we might go from here?

Around a decade ago my wife had a fling with a former coworker. I learned about this a few years ago, and it's been central to my fantasies ever since.

Perhaps this is a long shot, but I'd love to find someone who could roleplay as my wife's lover by writing me a letter reflecting on what happened.

What would be the best subs to explore this?