Legit red flag?
Ok, I'm finally testing the waters on a new sugar arrangement. I met a single woman on Snapchat, started a slow conversation over a span of several weeks. I had my eye on her before that as she's been on that app for a while. Started off about normal stuff, just flirting, not sugaring at all. I complimented a part of her ensemble and she said she could tailor more to my taste if I paid for it. Then it took off from there with a quick video chat. No names or phone numbers. Right away we started discussing $ for a pay per play arrangement, logistics, and boundaries. I expressed my preference is to build trust (for me) by talking a few times, then a meet and greet for coffee or a drink to get comfortable in person. She wants to immediately move from that to the hotel room to get the action started. She's not overly aggressive, but she's pushing to get this going as soon as possible.
I'm curious to know if this would be a red flag for anyone here, or is it just me? She says she wants to get intimacy going quickly to see if we're compatible and not waste time. She also said she wants to decide within the next 2 days if we are going to make plans because she doesn't want to waste her time talking if it isn't gonna happen.