u/West-Pomegranate-608

Good day to all you lovely folks!

On Monday April 21, 2025 I completed the Boston Marathon in a time of 2 hours and 44 minutes. For those of you who are unaware, the Boston Marathon is one of the most prestigious individual sporting events every year, and my time placed me in the top 0.01% of global marathoners.

Well, feedism has a nasty habit of rearing its ugly head, even amongst the most fit. Today, more than a year separated from the race, I’ve gone from a measly 145 lbs to nearly 176 lbs, totaling a little over a 30 lb gain. This may not sound like much, but for a previously elite athlete, this has brought about a massive change in my life.

Every time I brush my belly, I’m startled by the squishy sensation and my lack of abs. My ass and thighs have outgrown every pair of pants that used to fit. My calves have lost their trademark definition. I wake up every morning, hungry and horny, unable to focus until I’ve filled my belly and touched myself. It’s horrifying and beautiful all in one go.

Now here’s the kicker. If I make it to just over 340 lbs, I will be in the top 0.01% of global men for body weight. Imagine that. Elite athlete to elite fatass.

This is my goal for now. If anyone would like proof for my story, feel free to inquire in the DMs!

Happy eating folks! Can’t wait to be a proper hog like some of you :)

Hello beautiful people!

In my half-decade or so actively taking part in the community, I've noted two very distinct types of feedism. The first is totally, and wholly benign. It's about celebrating beauty wherever it is, even if it's unconventional. Fatness is idealized, and the act of getting fatter is one that's akin to an expression of love. This is the type that the vast majority of the community aspires to.

The second type is far more problematic, if not more prevalent. I've seen this play out time and time again on both this platform and feabie, and each time it feels so grating and offputting that I question why it persists in our community. You know the type I'm talking about. It's feedism solely through the lens of misogyny. It's an excuse for fit, conventionally attractive (almost always) men to treat fat people like shit because they believe that they have no recourse. It's feedism that people employ to degrade their partner and turn their body into something nonconsensual. It's the type of feedism that gives us all a bad name.

I'm not saying a good bimbofication arc is unwarranted, or that contrast can't be incredibly sexy. I for one am very partial to dishing out a nice bit of degradation. I just think we all need to take step back and recognize that we aren't entitled to anyone by virtue of the fact of their size or shape. Fat people have autonomy, and frankly, a whole lot of dating options that won't be dicks to them.

Have any of you noticed similar patterns? I'd be curious to hear about your experiences-- especially at the intersection of feedism and toxic masculinity.

and don’t get me wrong, I’ve had years of good experience in the feedism community, including a number of long term relationships. That said, the number of times I’ve gotten to know someone, put in a lot of effort to help them get off (monetary or otherwise), only for the them to delete their account on a random Tuesday morning is incredibly frustrating. This problem is especially pronounced on Reddit, relative to other platforms like Feabie or Tumblr.

No one is entitled to your time or affection, but I think it would be better for you, and for everyone you associate with, if you were comfortable with engaging with feedism before you hopped online to cum.

This kink comes with hella baggage. Talk about it with a therapist! Learn from those more experienced than you! Don’t waste other people’s time in forums.

That is all! Hope you have a wonderful day and learn to love yourself :,)