Do your sexual boundaries change by partner?
TLDR: new partner told me about her previous boundaries before sex. The sex was good and the only 2 things she said she wouldn’t do, she offered already. Is this trying to please me or does she feel different per person?
Hey all, I’ve been talking to this new adventurous woman for a bit and we recently had sex. When we talked about stuff before, she said there’s only two things she won’t do, anal and cum on her face. I was cool with that so we got down.
We pretty much fucked for 2 whole straight days and it was incredible. We were both feeling safe and adventurous. On the second day, she offered me both anal and to cum on her face. While I’d love to do both, I told her we can save it for another time if we still want as we have plenty of exploring to do.
I guess im wondering if this is something she legitimately wants to try with me as a new partner or if she was wanting to just let me do everything as she was enjoying herself? I really don’t like the idea of people impulsively overriding their boundaries for others and only want mutual enthusiasm.
I have had things I didn’t want to do but then wouldn’t mind with a new partner and different dynamic. Do you think I should just keep those off the table? Thanks!