u/Whoosh4x4

Let me start by simply quoting what this piece of the Internet is all about:
This is a community for men serving their wifes in a female led relationship. Here we can share ideas, experience and new ways to empress and make our goddess’ proud

I think it's interesting that so much of what has been contributed so far is about, well, different things. Like 'how can I get her to do things to me that I've been dreaming about but she thinks are gross'. Or 'look how my wife is growing to be how I want her to be'. Or 'Let's have a male contest about who has the most dominant wife'.

And it's not only about what's happening here, of course.
I feel the porn universe has mixed up hot horny naughty boy stuff with the thing FLR is really about: on the one hand a man's deep urge to serve his woman, and on the other hand the woman's deep joy in being uplifted by the protection, care and service of her man. You might even call it worshiping.
Not everyone feels this urge, not everyone feels it with the same intensity, it may even pick up or subside as life progresses.

What FLR is definitely not about is pushing or manipulating your woman into a mold of your own kinkiness.

Let me make very clear that I am not against hot steamy kinky horny sexy porny things. And if your wife expresses her urge to ram fat dildos up your tiny ass: have fun (please do exercise a bit beforehand...). If she gladly accepts your invitation to offer you a champagne glass of her morning pee: enjoy. Drink to my health.
In that case you'll find yourself on the crossroads of kink and FLR, and nice things can happen there.

But please, please do not confuse kinky cravings with FLR, devotion with manipulation, serving with pushing.

Please let me introduce myself briefly.

About six months ago I surprised my Wife with the announcement that I locked myself in a chastity cage and wanted Her to have the key. Not for kink, but as an investment into our relationship. She accepted complete control over my sexuality there and then.

Since then, the chastity thing has developed into an slowly growing FLR. I've dedicated myself to my Wife, offering Her all the control She feels ready to take. She is not very interested in being a Dom, but/and I make it clear that I don't ask very much but I am quite devoted to make Her happy (happier than She already is).
I do need Her attention, when She sees fit to give it, and appreciate a little tease-and-denial every now and again. Never as a reward, just as a reminder of Her power. I love Her very much and long for Her constantly.

In my experience, chastity plays a central role. My Wife thinks so too.
Yet submission and devotion is the bedrock beneath it all.