u/Wise-Confidence-5045

I was wondering why a lot of people have been reported being banned lately, especially with the illegal stream notice. So, I thought I would look at the terms and the famous acceptable use policy they refer to.

What do others make of this? It seems they wrote it in such a way that makes it easy for them to ban people. I may be reading this wrong, but it sounds like they are saying no nudity allowed until confirmed consent. I know a lot of this is legal cover rather than moderation policy, but interesting nonetheless.

Here are the terms:

Prohibited Behavior and Content

To maintain user safety and platform integrity, the following actions and content are prohibited:

• Minors and underage depictions: Any real, simulated, or suggested participation of a minor (under 18).
• Non-consensual acts: Forced nudity, sexual acts without mutual consent, or coercive behavior.
• Illegal content: Obscenity, human trafficking, exploitation, or promotion of illegal drugs or weapons.
• Violent or harmful material: Depictions of real injury, physical harm, or bestiality.
• Recording or sharing: Capturing, reproducing, or redistributing live video or chat content without written consent.
• Harassment or hate: Bullying, insults, or discrimination based on race, gender, sexual orientation, disability, or other characteristics.
• Impersonation: Pretending to be another person, including staff, or misrepresenting identity.
• Advertising or solicitation: Promoting commercial content, escorting, or off-platform sexual services.
• Fraud or deception: Scamming users, phishing, or soliciting money under false pretenses.
• Public exposure: Broadcasting sexual activity or nudity in public or semi-public locations.

Any violation of these rules may result in suspension, permanent ban, and, where appropriate, referral to law enforcement.

Sexual Expression and Conduct Standards

This platform is a space for adults to engage in lawful, consensual sexual expression. Every interaction must remain respectful, voluntary, and compliant with applicable law.

• All sexual activity and expression must be between verified adults (18+) who have given clear and continuing consent.
• Content or behavior that is coercive, exploitative, or involves non-consensual acts is forbidden.
• Participants must not depict or reference anyone who is—or appears to be—under 18 years old.
• Violence, bestiality, extreme degradation, or real harm are prohibited.
• Simulated or role-play content must remain clearly consensual.
• No trafficking, escorting, or prostitution-related solicitation is allowed.
• Recording, copying, or distributing another user’s session without their written consent is strictly prohibited.

Lawful sexual expression between consenting adults is allowed across the platform. However, users must always act within the bounds of consent, legality, and mutual respect.

Hi All,

Here is the July update for Flingster tags. I'm confident with most of these, but some I am still testing, so I'll update if anything changes.

1. Couples
2. Daddy
3. Black
4. Boobs
5. Mature
6. Exhibitionist
7. Slut
8. Kink
9. BBC
10. FTM
11. Couple
12. Grandpa
13. Oldman
14. Big Dick
15. Big Cock
16. Cum
17. Dirty-Talk (use this version, dirtytalk no longer gets results)
18. BWC
19. BBW
20. Whore

I have tested a number of the old legacy tags, and most of these aren't getting results. If anyone has suggestions on other tags, let me know, and I will test them.

Hi All,

Just as a reminder, please keep the new rules in mind.

In particular, rely on public tags only and do not specifically ask for private, alternative or custom tags. I'm not going to police DM messages, so discuss any of this in private.

The same approach applies to any girls posting; only post a public tag and don't say DM for tag or anything like that.

Request

I don't have any reason to believe that any of the girls posting are not on Flingster. But to help the community and address some concerns, if you find the girl/couple posting, it would be helpful to note that in the comments.

I'm always wary of the tried looking for you, but couldn't find you type comments. There are always variables with that, but social proof of members finding the OP is helpful.

Hi All,

So, often when I'm on Flingster for around 30 mins and struggling to find a good connection, I switch over to Dirty Roulette. I almost always then do find someone good on there, and uaully within the first few mins of being on there.

Just curious if anyone else has the same experience?

Hi All,

So, after some more testing on this there is something I want to highlight that might help with wins/connections. During my research into how AI grades, one thing that stuck out was that nudity combined with touching gets you a high NSFW score.

I saw some evidence of this between yesterday and today. Yesterday, I was touching most of the time and my score increased to around 50% and stuck at around that level. This means connection speeds are still fairly good and you shouldn't see auto skips, but you will get mostly lower heart girls.

Today, I aimed not to touch, and my score was 17% with the girl I finished with. So, if you are struggling to make a good connection, stop touching for a while might help as well as generally not touching the whole time.

To put some data on this to showcase the difference.

Yesterday

NSFW score 46.5%

Av delay between connections 20 seconds

Av hearts per user 374

Today

NSFW score 17.3%

Av delay between connections 5 seconds

Av hearts per user 1,002

Hi All,

So, I'm not convinced with a few of the tags I suggested before. It's worth noting that we need to be careful with just suggesting popular tags since they may not find what we are looking for. For example, girlfriend and wife are popular, but after further testing this seems to be mostly guys showing pics of their gf or wife on phones or screens.

Here is my updated list:

1. Watching
2. Mature
3. Black
4. Daddy
5. Couples
6. Grandpa
7. Cum
8. BWC
9. Couple
10. Dirty-talk
11. Kink
12. Older
13. BBC
14. Exhibitionist
15. 18
16. BDSM
17. Oldman
18. Slut
19. Big dick
20. FTM

Hi All,

Ok, so a few people have asked me for a wider list of the top tags currently for Flingster/Dirty Roulette. I've done some testing last night and this morning. Some tags that I've had success with in the past have dropped right off, or they just didn't track correctly anyway here is the data-based list.

1. Couples (79 Matches)
2. Couple (39 Matches)
3. Daddy (27 Matches)
4. Wife (23 Matches)
5. BWC (21 Matches)
6. BBC (18 Matches)
7. Black (18 Matches)
8. Dirty-talk (18 Matches)
9. Mature (15 Matches)
10. Cum (13 Matches)
11. Grandpa (11 Matches)
12. Kink (11 Matches)
13. Watching (8 Matches)
14. Big Dick (4 Matches)
15. Sex (4 Matches)
16. Big Cock (3 Matches)
17. Horny (3 Matches)
18. BDSM (3 Matches)
19. FTM (3 Matches)
20. Submissive (2 Matches)

I will do some more testing, but that seems to be the top 20 list for right now.

Hi All,

Here is my list of the best Flingster countries in terms of wins/connections. Interesting to see how it compares to everyone else.

1. USA
2. UK
3. Canada
4. India
5. Spain
6. Trinidad
7. Germany
8. Switzerland
9. Australia
10. Russia
11. Italy
12. Netherlands
13. Brazil
14. Greece
15. South Africa
16. Philippines
17. Mexico

Let me know which of these countries work well for you and which others you are getting not on this list.

Hi All,

Whether or not Flingster Premium is worth it is always a debatable subject. Experiences can differ depending on your looks, social skills, experience with cam sites, lighting/tech, strategy and times/days you go on.

So, is it worth $20 a month?

If I was answering this a few months back, I would probably be leaning towards no. I personally would have kept the subscription out of habit and because I have a bunch of other cam sites to use with credit if needed.

But the problem was the site had become near to unusable. At the time, I couldn't say why this was, but what I knew is I was being put in auto skip loops, which I assumed was a combination of site glitches and girls skipping. What this typically meant was spending an hour online, but only getting a couple of good connections with low heart girls. Debatable if that was worth paying for, when you can hop on a site like Coomeet and get the instant show you want.

Has my opinion changed since then?

In short, yes. My experience now is more in line with the good old days of Flingster. Now I get a mix of users with girls at various heart lengths and sessions ranging in length. The site is also generally quicker with a lot less low-quality bot/black screens accounts.

Have I changed my approach?

I did initially. Once I discovered the info about the NSFW score, I played around with it by mixing up between SFW and NSFW angles. This is what made the big difference. It is a balance because my experience is girls usually skip SFW angles but often stay for the NSFW ones, logical really given Flingster is a sex site.

But the crucial point here is that if AI gives you a 99% NSFW score, you'll struggle to make any connections at all. And arguably, spending an hour online with a 99% NSFW score is a waste of time . The more you do this, the more your trust score goes down, which means you are likely to get a high NSFW score in the future.

Anyway, this is what worked for me initially. When I applied this logic, my experience went from auto skip hell to the good old days of Flingster. I no longer see auto-skips and get a mix of users.

But, have AI made NSFW scoring less aggressive

My testing from the last few weeks has suggested that it's now harder to get a high NSFW score and takes longer. This means you can probably go on for 30 mins and not be restricted even with a NSFW angle.

But you will get restricted eventually and the longer you stay, the higher the risk is. So, the advice remains the same, if you see signs (slower connection speeds, auto skip loops, too many low heart/bot accounts) these are your signals to mix up your approach or come off the site.

A note on traffic

Keep in mind that female traffic is always low (5% of total users at best). So, it's normal to see some low heart users and slower connection speeds. This doesn't necessarily mean you are being restricted. So, look for the very obvious signs, connection speeds are always slow, auto skip loop (which isn't normal), and connections always being girls with under 10 hearts.

General tips for Flingster Premium

The basics remain crucial. I have an external webcam, mic and find these things make a big difference. But do the best with what you have, ensure your lighting is as good as it can be (avoid camming in the dark with only your laptop screen as light), get the best/widest webcam angle you can. If you're using an internal webcam, consider pushing the laptop back and using an external keyboard if you have one.

I have an AI tracking webcam, but it isn't that useful for this purpose. The tracking tends to want to show your face, which is exactly what you don't want. Another note here is that Flingster scales down webcam feeds to 480p, so a 4K cam doesn't do you a lot of good. But if anyone wants any advice on basic webcams or mics let me know. I have a mini mic I use and it does a decent job and this one was a budget buy.

Tags/Country Filter

I know everyone is always searching for this perfect tags. And yes, they can help to an extent. I know a number of people have asked for a wider suggested tag list. I'm tracking that data and will post that shortly.

For now, I suggest referring to the previous lists I have posted. A lot of those tags still work well, ignore the fact they don't appear on the suggested tags list. On country filter, my advice here is either go all countries or put 20+ countries in. Looking for one country specifcially doesn't work well unless the female traffic is very high, so it might work for USA but it won't for Finland. I find the best approach here is to use 20+ mixed with high traffic from different regions. If anyone needs help here, I can advise which the highest traffic countries are per region.

I would also say, don't rely on filters. Sometimes, the best wins are found with no tags or country filter.

Regions/Time Zones

Keep in mind timezone when searching for girls from specific regions. The general advice here is that evening is best for Europe, later hours better for US/South America and morning hours better for Asia/Aus/NZ. African traffic is generally low, and depends on the country for example South Africa is close to European time.

Other advice

• Be patient (traffic can be slow)
• Don't stay on for hours
• Try and be different to the next guy and use your mic
• Avoid using the back button (it pushes up your NSFW score)
• Don't skip too many users too quickly (AI might think your a bot)
• Keep yourself on cam (showing another screen might get you banned by AI)

Tips for interacting with girls

• Read the room (every girl needs a different approach)
• Try and enjoy the show rather than direct it
• Be interesting/different
• Talking goes a long way
• Try not to prolong it too much (most girls aren't going to want you to edge for an hour)

Final thoughts

Flingster is still good if you know how to use it. I'm not a fan of what they are doing with the NSFW score, but we have to work the system. A lot of the advice remains the same and I wouldn't advise staying on for too long if you aren't getting results.

Have realistic expectations, you aren't going to get amazing wins every time you go on, you can't rely on the 30 minute sessions from the good old days. But fun can still be had, and if you mix it with other sites, the $20 is still worth it.

Thanks to the community

There will always be debate about moderation. But despite what some claim, we are a growing and thriving community here. We have just reached 10K members, so thanks to everyone who posts, comments and reads here and thanks for sticking with us.

Ok, so I've added/changed some rules to address some of the concerns so we can keep the community safe and growing.

Here is a rundown of the rules:

Rule #1: No Screenshots or Videos of Strangers

This one is essential. Reddit is now required by law to take down non-consensual recordings within 48 hours or face being fined in certain regions. I would have this rule anyway as part of my mission to keep women safe in the community. One of the things that deters women from going on Flingster is the risk of being recorded and leaked.

Rule #2: No M4F Posts

This rule is more of a personal preference. All M4F posts will be filtered or removed. Wait for women/couples to post tags or just go on Flingster in the normal way. I'm also including duo cams and that sort of thing in this. Again, let's try to keep this sub safe for women by not flooding it with M4F posts.

Rule #3: No Disrespect, Abuse, Insults or Harassment

Our rule here applies in general to everyone, but it's especially written to protect women. It is broad by design to cover a full range of disrespectful comments that sadly we see too often in this sub.

Rule #4: No Talking About or Sharing Wins

Similar to rule one, don't encourage users to record girls, brag about your recorded videos or try to use apps like Telegram to share.

Rule #5: Low Karma Posts Are Filtered

If your karma is too low, it will go the mod queue rather than being posted automatically. From there, I will approve the ones I think are valauble and removed the rest. To avoid this get your karma up, the required level is low and designed to catch new accounts, not established users. You can still comment to get your karma up.

Rule #6: Do Not Call Anyone Fake

I have seen a few posts assuming someone is fake because they couldn't find them on Flingster. Keep in mind there are often a lot of guys searching and she can only be connected with one guy at a time. It is also a lot easier to find a girl using a tag with premium.

If you think someone is not really on Flingster, send a DM about it, and I will investigate. But do not call them fake in the comments because you couldn't find them.

Rule #7: No Direct Selling

To address some of the concerns, this is a new rule that has been added. What is means is that someone can not simply post a link to an Only Fans page, anyone that posts here must be a Flingster user.

Rule #8: Public Tags Only

Related to rule seven, girls/couples should post a public tag and not say DM for tag or find the tag on my OF, for example. They also should not say in comments, DM for a private tag.

Rule #9: Do Not Ask For Private Tag

Members that comment on girls post should also not ask for a private tag. Use the public tag that is posted or discuss things privately.

Rule #10: No Account Buying/Sharing/Selling

This is not a place to share, buy or sell a Flingster account. Any posts/comments regarding this will be removed.

Rule #11: Do Not Post Social Media Links

Please do not post social media links in comments or posts. This is something to discuss privately.

Rule #12: Posts From Shadow-Banned Account Won't Be Approved

If your account is shadow-banned, chances are your posts will be filtered. I won't be approving these going forward.

***

Thanks for reading.

Hi All,

So, there have been a number of posts/comments about me and the community here. I thought it would be useful to set out my position on all of this.

There is always going to be debate in any Reddit community about what the rules should be, and who should/shouldn't be allowed to post.

Why I started Flingster Shuffle

As we know, there has been a few previous Flingster communities on here, some of which I've been involved with, others I haven't been. Over that period, I've learned what works and what doesn't.

When starting this sub, I had a good idea of what the basic rules and approach should be. This was a combination of personal preferences, what others seem to like and how to survive Reddit's mods.

It's a difficult balancing act. Anyway, that has run a community will know how hard it is just to keep the spam and rule-breaking posts at bay. I disagree with the way the other Flingster sub is run, especially on the point of discussion.

Flingster Shuffle is here to strike the balance between a discussion group, connecting with others via tags and keeping spam at bay.

Where is the moderation?

This is a point that was raised the other day, I can assure everyone the moderation is alive and well. I'm removing posts every day that break the rules. But as I mentioned, there will always be a debate about who should and shouldn't be allowed to post.

I believe in light-touch moderation. This is a niche comnmunity, if I removed every post that someone questioned, then the community would be dead. So, I'm taking a balanced approach.

Safe place for women

I have seen firsthand how badly a lot of women get treated, just because they post a Flingster tag. One of my main objectives here, was to make sure that wasn't the case here. And yes, it plays a part in my mod decisions.

But let's be clear here, there are no special deals for allowing people to post. In fact, I don't make any money from this. I'm not working for Flingster, which should be obvious from some of my critical comments.

My position is clear, if a girl/couple is a genuine user of Flingster that can post. If someone is not really using Flingster, then they won't be able to. Some of you have called for a blanket ban on OF girls. And yes, I'm well aware some girls have asked for payment for private tags.

I understand the position that asking for payment for a Flingster show goes against the spirit of the site. But what I would say about this is it's just an option; no one forces you to use a tag. If a girl is only offering a few mins of time for free, there are plenty of girls on Flingster you can find for more time.

Why I share posts?

So, I've even had comments made about the posts I share, again assuming there is a secret agenda at play. There isn't! As I said, I make no money from running this. I share some things about NSFW score, tags and general tips simply to help others have a better experience.

For example, on the NSFW score, this is something I discovered and looked into it in detail. I could have easily kept it to myself, and I know some people think I'm lying about it. That's fine, I wouldn't have believed it six months ago either.

But I have no reason or benefit to lie about this or anything else. A lot of us suffered with auto skips, and I myself found the site almost unusable at times. But yet, haven't had any issues since applying my knowledge on the NSFW score.

Summary

I believe Flingster Shuffle should be open to everyone, especially women. For good reason, I want to do things with light touch moderation as much as possible. There is room for a vareity of different posts here.

The girls that share tags here, are just an option. Please don't insult them or call them fake without evidence. If you think someone is only pretending to use Flingster for OF engagement, send me a DM about it, and I will investigate.

I make no money from running this and I share posts just because I want to help everyone have a better experience. I believe knowledge should be shared, while others think it shouldn't be. Again, what I say is just an option, if you don't believe me on the NSFW score or other things no need to follow it.

Hopefully this clarifies everything.

Ok, here is my full update after the latest testing.

NSFW Score

I'm seeing the same pattern as I reported in my most recent post on this subject. So, the score starts low and does increase a bit to around 50%, and then stays around there or drops back a bit.

From what I've seen, this only causes minimal restrictions. It looks like the average heart level does drop a bit, and it's a bit slower, but nothing major. In general, you are going to be in the mid-tier at this point. So, it's not the fastest connection times and heart level, but you aren't in the spam queue either.

The question right now is why it doesn't increase further. It may be that VIP protection and wider camera angles help, as well as the duration of the session. I was only on for about 30 mins last night. What I've generally seen before is the NSFW score going up higher for longer sessions. So, this plays into my advice of limiting your sessions to an hour. There is also a trust score that plays a small part in this. So, if your NSFW score is generally under 50%, you should see more protection.

What this probably tells us is that covering up is not as important as I previously said. Instead, look for the signals and only cover up if you see slow connections, low hearts and auto skips.

Tags

I have two separate scripts that are tracking interest tags, so I will list the top five from each below.

Script #1 Tags

1. 18 (7 Matches)

2. BBC (8 Matches)

3. Dirty-Talk (8 Matches)

4. Black (9 Matches)

5. Couples (9 Matches

Script#2 Tags

1. Grandpa (5 Matches)

2. 18 (11 Matches)

3. Mature (12 Matches)

4. FTM (13 Matches)

5. Couples (15 Matches)

A further note on tags, it's not always the most popular tags that are best for wins. For example, my best win of the night was from the BWC tag, which I only got one other match from.

Top Countries

1. Greece (6 Matches)

2. India (10 Matches)

3. UK (13 Matches)

4. Canada (14 Matches)

5. US (17 Matches)

Conclusion

It's important to keep the NSFW in score in mind, but it's probably only an issue for longer sessions. If you've been on for an hour and notice slower connection speeds, lower hearts and auto skips, you probably have a high score, so cover up for a bit or come off the site for a bit.

It's in your interest to keep a score below 50% on average, so you improve your trust score, which along with VIP membership, offers you more protection from a high NSFW score.

A lot of the legacy tags (ones that aren't suggested) are still generating a decent amount of traffic. But on your tags list, you should have a mix of popular tags and less popular ones you think might work.

From my testing last night, Flingster is not dead; it just may be that we need to know how to play the system to get the best results.

This is a question we will soon need to ask. It appears Thunder has been the latest site to introduce this feature. After looking at various other sites/apps most make you show your face to use them, or the chat stops working, or your feed gets blurred.

With age verification laws and an attempt to block black screens/bots, it's likely Flingster will soon follow suit. In fact, the NSFW rating AI is already looking to see if your face is on cam, so they can easily turn this feature on if they want.

But by doing so, they risk killing their audience who use the site because you don't have to show your identity. It also plays into the hands of scammers, who will be able to use face recognition software to find your social accounts and/or create deepfakes to blackmail you.

If the main concern is to stop fakes, then an AI quality filter is a much better tool for this. I'm not a massive fan of the NSFW scoring, especially on an adult site. But at least if they implemented the face detector this way, it gives you options. For example, not showing your face and get lower quality matches.

So, am I overreacting to this? Is showing your face no big deal? Would you use the site if you had to?

Ok, so this is somewhat interesting. I did some more testing last night and didn't see what I expected. Previously, when naked for a few mins the NSFW spikes, and this is where my advice on covering up comes in. As mentioned before, the main signs are quick skips, slow connection speeds and seeing a lot of low heart users.

What was different

Last night, the typical pattern didn't happen though, and I was on for around an hour. Instead, what I saw is NSFW score starting low and yes it did increase a bit that made me think it was heading towards a restriction.

It hit around 40-50%, but then came down a bit and didn't increase further. I didn't see the symptoms of restriction, and it never went above 50% or got me stuck with only low-quality users.

Conclusion

The way AI views us may change session by session; just because you are naked doesn't mean you will always hit a restriction. So, this means you don't always need to be covered. Instead, you should look for the signals, cover up when the site restricts you.