42 [F4M] not your typical R4R post
yep, not at all your usual post, but taking a stab in the dark! casually hoping to find my forever love but open to friends and lovers along the way.
i’m attracted to kindness, authenticity, playfulness, depth, emotional intelligence, and communication.
i lean demisexual and take time to get to know people before engaging in consensual discussions of intimacy or hopping into bed. enthusiastic consent and communication are non-negotiables (and ugh, so sexy!). i’m a huge fan of the long game, the slow burn, and the mental and emotional energetics involved.
vanilla:
i’m a driven health//academia professional by day, rescue dog mom by night🐕, and aspiring green thumb 🪴
i am just as happy on an adventure as i am browsing vintage stores and listening to records or watching a movie
neurodivergent 🌶️ with a huge heart 💜 and a healthy dose of sass
huge advocate for mental health and am always putting in the work on myself
cuddling is one of my favorite forms of human connection
music is a major love language of mine
active, fit, and easy on the eyes
currently unpartnered.. and selective about who i give my time to.
non-vanilla:
dipping my toes into kink in the right settings with the right partners - just because i disclose this here doesn’t mean i’ll want to jump right in. open to light power dynamics and bondage, couple and group play, and i’m sure there are others. all are nice to haves, i am more interested in the person and dynamic, cultivating trust between us, and whatever manifests from the truly safe and uninhibited space we create together.
you:
can show me you read this whole thing by reaching out and engaging in conversation as if we’re already friends. disclose your age and location and tell me about yourself.
please don’t want an AP or be cheating on your partner - i am not interested.
be roughly 35-45, healthy, active/fit, emotionally intelligent, kind, respectful, witty/clever, and wanting something deeper than just a fucktoy. huge bonus points if you’re queer/bi/pan.
i will not respond to “hey, hmu” or any other form of lazy or blanket/template messages you send to any old woman on here.