28[M4F] we only have today.

Confession: the most fun I've ever had in this space wasn't from the times things got physical. It was the connections that lived entirely in our phones, where neither of us had any real plans to meet. Just two people who got each other's missing piece and ran with it.

That missing piece for me is the depraved side of things. The stuff your partner humors but doesn't actually share. You want someone matching your freak, not just nodding along.

I'm 28, West Coast, and I've been around the block with online dynamics. What I'm hoping to find here is a woman with a side to herself she's been wanting to actually explore. Maybe your kinks have been collecting dust. Maybe your sex drive just runs circles around your spouse's and you want someone to share that with who gets it. Could be you're not even sure what you're into yet, just that there's more to you than your day to day lets on.

My wife knows my tastes, the weird corners of my brain, all of it. She'll tease me about it playfully and I love her for that. But having an online girlfriend who genuinely enjoys going there with me, and whose own depths I get to discover along the way? That's the thing I don't have.

Couple things worth knowing:

Plan is online only. I'm not going to pretend there's zero chance I'd ever be open to more somewhere way down the line, but I'd much rather we build this assuming it stays digital. It's more fun that way anyway.

I don't need you to be into any specific thing. I just need you to be into something. Half the fun for me is learning what makes someone else tick. If you're curious and open minded, we'll get along fine.

I lean left politically, and I've found I connect best with people roughly 28-45. That's a guideline though, not some hard cutoff.

You made it to the end. Might as well say hi. Worst case nothing changes, right?

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u/Worried_Leek2884 — 7 days ago

[M4F] 28, discreet lover here

Confession: the most fun I've ever had in this space wasn't from the times things got physical. It was the connections that lived entirely in our phones, where neither of us had any real plans to meet. Just two people who got each other's missing piece and ran with it.

That missing piece for me is the depraved side of things. The stuff your partner humors but doesn't actually share. You want someone matching your freak, not just nodding along.

I'm 28, West Coast, and I've been around the block with online dynamics. What I'm hoping to find here is a woman with a side to herself she's been wanting to actually explore. Maybe your kinks have been collecting dust. Maybe your sex drive just runs circles around your spouse's and you want someone to share that with who gets it. Could be you're not even sure what you're into yet, just that there's more to you than your day to day lets on.

My wife knows my tastes, the weird corners of my brain, all of it. She'll tease me about it playfully and I love her for that. But having an online girlfriend who genuinely enjoys going there with me, and whose own depths I get to discover along the way? That's the thing I don't have.

Couple things worth knowing:

Plan is online only. I'm not going to pretend there's zero chance I'd ever be open to more somewhere way down the line, but I'd much rather we build this assuming it stays digital. It's more fun that way anyway.

I don't need you to be into any specific thing. I just need you to be into something. Half the fun for me is learning what makes someone else tick. If you're curious and open minded, we'll get along fine.

I lean left politically, and I've found I connect best with people roughly 28-45. That's a guideline though, not some hard cutoff.

You made it to the end. Might as well say hi. Worst case nothing changes, right?

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u/Worried_Leek2884 — 15 days ago

28[M4F] #PST The best connections never left my phone.

Confession: the most fun I've ever had in this space wasn't from the times things got physical. It was the connections that lived entirely in our phones, where neither of us had any real plans to meet. Just two people who got each other's missing piece and ran with it.

That missing piece for me is the depraved side of things. The stuff your partner humors but doesn't actually share. You want someone matching your freak, not just nodding along.

I'm 28, West Coast, and I've been around the block with online dynamics. What I'm hoping to find here is a woman with a side to herself she's been wanting to actually explore. Maybe your kinks have been collecting dust. Maybe your sex drive just runs circles around your spouse's and you want someone to share that with who gets it. Could be you're not even sure what you're into yet, just that there's more to you than your day to day lets on.

My wife knows my tastes, the weird corners of my brain, all of it. She'll tease me about it playfully and I love her for that. But having an online girlfriend who genuinely enjoys going there with me, and whose own depths I get to discover along the way? That's the thing I don't have.

Couple things worth knowing:

Plan is online only. I'm not going to pretend there's zero chance I'd ever be open to more somewhere way down the line, but I'd much rather we build this assuming it stays digital. It's more fun that way anyway.

I don't need you to be into any specific thing. I just need you to be into something. Half the fun for me is learning what makes someone else tick. If you're curious and open minded, we'll get along fine.

I lean left politically, and I've found I connect best with people roughly 28-45. That's a guideline though, not some hard cutoff.

You made it to the end. Might as well say hi. Worst case nothing changes, right?

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u/Worried_Leek2884 — 16 days ago