A couple of weeks ago, I connected with a guy on Grindr and we seemed to have had great sexual chemistry from the onset. I decided to invite him over since I figured we were both enthusiastic about having a session together. The first few minutes of talking with him felt electric, the kissing and body rubbing was nothing short of thunderous. But I noticed some reluctance when it was time to do the actual deed and when I noted this, he said he was uncomfortable given our body size difference hence we couldn't do much else (he's 6"1-ish with medium muscle mass). Now, as someone who stands at 5"3, most of my partners have been much taller and bigger in body size/mass. "Handling " them has never been much of a problem given that they were a) gentle giants b) I adapted to the difference enough to enjoy even the roughest play with the contrast fuelling my relaxation.
Save for one erroneous occasion where I hooked up with a bigger guy who intentionally rough with me because he got off on the act of dominating someone smaller than him, I've not really had apprehensions about size or height differences with sexual or romantic partners. I wondered if the aforementioned guy felt that way because he was intending to be rougher hence fearing that it might physically hurt me?
Have you had to forego a hookup because of a body size difference? If you're on the smaller side of the scale, does getting down with a bigger dude put you off? Vice versa for guys on the taller end, do you feel a sense of unease being physically intimate with someone shorter than you?