I was doing stuff on the net when i found the kinkmap and following that i found a Kinklist, which is basically a collection of kinks that you can rate yourself on and then exchange with a partner, roleplay partner BDSM Buddy, whoever. There are several versions of this online, this one worked for me and it has four sizes: mini, classic, extended and ultimate, but it is a bit confusing how "giving" and "receiving" is treated differently in different sections.
And i just thought that this would fit into this Sub, since there have been kink/fetish CYOAs here and it is sort of interactive.
On further searching i found that there are actually many of these out there and i think i'll just gather a few of them here for you, you could also search for them on your own.
there is also this one on a Github html with three versions inside by adhesivecheese
One on Gitlab
There is this Enhanced Kinklist which is much more granular and has many different things to choose, it also has the nice feature to pin the legend EDIT: this one has lots of pictures, you just need to hover over a barely perceptable symbol on most options.
There is also this KinkSheet (which may have been posted on here several years ago. Or at least i seem to remember something of the sort, but i cant find it anyways)
There is this Ultimate BDSM Kinklist which also takes care of you in ways of allergies and such, which is nice.
What do you think of these? What is your your preference between these? Or do you want to post your exported kinksheet? I dont want to see that and for me it would be something private, but i wont stop you.
Edit: A Kink-list of a different style more for Furry fun: https://wiki.f-list.net/Kink_Information
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Some Philosophy: I think a kink is roughly a kind of sexual interest/preference that drifts from what is perceived to be normal. It is generally a broad Umbrella term. It usually means any sexual interest, preference, or practice that falls outside someone’s personal “vanilla” baseline or what they perceive as typical. Basically non-mainstream and personal preferences for sexual stuff.
You could build a metaphor of a "straight straw = normal" and a "kinked straw" being perceived different or atypical in some way
Then a fetish (which is usually used the same as kink in unspecfic conversation, but I think we gain more by making a distinction) is a stronger version of a kink, its focus may be more specific, or entail several kinks on its own. Typically it is stronger emotionally. To give a some kind of boundary: i would propose that a fetish is actively sought out and involved in most sexual encounters, otherwise you feel unfulfilled or unstimulated.
To build on the metaphor, a fetish in this understanding would be when you want all of your straws to have this specific righthand bend there and be thicker on the bottom.
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Also people seem to think that there is no such thing as a breeding kink? I would disagree and argue about that.