Or is it ever ok? I recently heard about a situation where a client, who was already expecting multiple hours for basically a single hour rate, even though that has been blatantly denied, got really aggressive during the oral part of the appointment. It felt disrespectful and invalidating, kind of. Definitely like he's watched too much porn and has forgotten a human's requirement for air and doesn't realize how awful it feels with your face shoved down in a puby puddle, because why would he groom a little? Thankfully my stomach was completely empty but that basically meant I was there dry heaving over and over and that sucked. He wouldn't let me give any sort of a normal service, it was solely hands on head dictating speed, strength, and time.
After about 20 minutes I couldn't take it anymore and he seemed to understand. But then a few minutes later he was back to the same thing. At this point we had 10 minutes left in the appointment and I apologized and left. I have never ended an appointment early, ever, but I just couldn't take one more second.
I hesitated as long as I could and I'm having a little internal struggle over the matter. He had invested a pretty decent amount (20% of which I had already sent back so I could make sure I was leaving after an hour period.). But does that investment mean that I no longer have a say in what goes on, or that anything goes? Technically, per my menu, that interaction should have received a higher investment because of the intensity of the activity but I am terrible at saying stuff about that in the moment (perhaps another question I need to research/post?🤔), and he wasn't going to lay it anyway.
Am I just getting sensitive or was leaving justified?
Note: he has already contacted again. I'm not sure about taking that appointment though 🤷♀️