Well lads, dunno if the topic has ever been brought up on here before, feel free to remove if it is, but I figured Id stop dancing around the question and ask directly. To those of you who are in or have been in AB/DL relationships, whats some advice for starting out with finding potential partners?
For reference, Im a straight lad in my mid 20s based in the GDA, Im more on the DL side of things personally and have in recent months really started to not enjoy personal use of diapers, just preferring them as an extension of whatevers getting me off.
Id ideally like to find someone who is into AB/DL, probably more casually than full time but willing to delve in deeper. Obviously its kinda hard to hop on Hinge or the like and outright state "oh yeah I like girls who wear diapers and use them" as thats usually a point of contention for most people, and Ive had very little luck with fetish apps since I really dont want to put pictures of myself and my body out there, and so have hit a wall. Id also like to take this opportunity to say this isnt me advertising, I am genuinely looking for advice.
This is gonna be a part of me for life, even if I grapple with my identity with this fetish pretty regularly, so Id like to be with someone who is of a similar mind, but also have a relationship that isnt solely focused on AB/DL. So, does anyone have any good tips for that kind of stuff or am I utterly doomed? Lmao