u/Yeetmaster988a

I know I've spoken before in an old comment section while back. (My opinion wasn't well taken) But nonetheless I guess I just wanna get my fears out. (19M turning 20 next month) I haven't really done anything in terms of dating but I want to cruise, though Im sorta frightened at how to do it right, safety from STDs and well bad people. I wanna bottom but also wanna explore other stuff. I guess my overall question as an inexperienced guy is how truly scary (or not) is hooking up with someone. And what things can I do to kinda loosen up both mindset and well body ofc.