u/Yellow_Balloon_

What's are the best and safest most effective ways to really stretch well. I have noticed that plugs don't seem to really stretch and relax the anal sphincter. In regards to best lube brand I am here for that as well. And tips to avoid any tearing or sore spots.

My wife and I very recently are getting into naturism. We have been involved in the kink and BDSM community or a little while but we are not super engrossed. I'm curious of other people who have taken a similar path that blends the outdoors, nudism, and BDSM.

What I keep running into is it seems like there's a very close relation to nudism and being swingers which we are not. It also seems like many nudists have an aversion to BDSM. So I'm curious to see other people's experiences or to try to relate to people and how they combine being naked in the outdoors. Playing and exercising kink in BDSM activities outside. Ethical and making sure everyone is safe.

I know that these kinds of journeys are unique to individuals but I really do value listening to other people's experience.

Anyone know some good secluded beaches to get out to and maybe lose some clothing at around Cabo? Bonus if they're truly hidden/totally private/etc