Paypigs questions: what do you value most?
Hello fellow subs.. I've been a paypig for a little less than a decade now but I realized that I've never discussed anything with any other sub. So yeah.. I wanna hear from y'all
For me, dommes that get me going usually have a couple of these in common:
1- they feel real and authentic and are not in this to try to please subs by changing who they are. They also always seem to say the first thing they've in mind rather than thinking things over in advance.
2- They're also gooners and pretty kinky themselves. I don't care much that their fucked up fetishes are the same as mine, as long as they have some.. I feel this makes it easier for us to connect and have something enjoyable to discuss in-between sending.
3- They're interesting people. They all felt like people with unusual backgrounds and interesting stories. Dommes that had jobs were also in interesting occupations. My fav domme is a producer!
4- they call me out on shit. Lots of times when I get overly needy, they can snap me back and prevent me from bothering them by simply telling me so. This matters to me tbh cause I can get kinda fucked up with intox and denial kinks and I'm afraid of becoming annoying. Knowing they'll tell me upfront instead of bottling it up or just ignoring me puts me at ease
Lemme hear yours!