How much can She delegate before it’s no longer an FLR?
I have always been drawn to Femdom in the bedroom, but I also feel a strong drive to steward the logistical side of a relationship. I enjoy handling the mental load of everything from household management to planning date nights and even long-term retirement strategies. I personally thrive when I can be a provider; a "secure container" where I take on the heavy lifting of life so my partner can be her best self.
This isn’t about simply inverting the Tradwife concept; it’s a dynamic where both partners retain full agency while leaning into their competitive advantages. I’m curious if this Lifestyle Steward or Service Top model still fits the FLR vibe. At what point does delegating leadership responsibilities to him make it no longer a female led relationship?