u/Zanna-75

Hey all of you, i wanted to shortly update you on everything that happened in the time since my last post which is pretty positive and i think its cool to hear some good stuff from other people for a change.

So first i now have collected all the money i would theoretically need for the breast augmentation surgery + a bit extra which was the main reason that i started sex work in the first place😁

I had pretty much fun during this time even though sometimes it was pretty stressful with all the guys that waisted my time or were trying too shift my boundaries but it was worth it since i discovered many new things about my sexuallaty (z.b i never had though that i would like foot stuff)

I more or less will stop sex work shortly accept with 2 maybe 3 of my regulars from whitch one was the 2 customer ever for me.

On one of them i am not sure i will keep meeting him because he always is trying to shift my boundaries whitch I in a strange way like because of the power play if that would be the right description.

I defenetly dont want too get new customers because i fear that It could give me problems in the next work that I want too do.

And last lee the best news, the psychiatric ward i am currently am at suddenly changed it's mind and wants to help me get all the surgery's I want (bottom surgery and breast augmentation surgery) whitch would mean the health care system would pay for the surgery's and I can use the money for other things like for example for an fossil workstation, tatoos whitch I always wanted and for a new beginning in life in general 😁

As soon as i get the bottom surgery i will definitely stop sex work completely because i want that someone special is the person that I have vaginal sex with and not some one that I get money from.

Oh and finally i am happy about that I dont need to shave my hair anymore because i find smooth skin creepy and strange.

So that was update on my situation for you all 🥳

Just wanted to talk to some people about what is currently going on and thought i go here.

So I started to do sex work again to finance some of the operations and the stuff that needs to be done before them and i see no other way to achieve that than this way since the medical professionals w want to help me🙃

I originally had plant one meetings every day of the week but because most people cancelled only few hours before the meeting would have took place i had only 3 successful meetings which went mixed at best.

One guy constantly was constantly trying to shift my boundaries which i sat witch I can handle, after the meeting he sent me his phone number on telegram even though I said I wouldn't text him anywhere else sine i dont want them to have my number and now he is trying to get me to text him for another meeting but for his bad i will not do that.

The next meeting was ok even though it went differently than planned because the guy had send me pictures from an other person that wasn't him and he had no place for the meeting and tryd to convince me to do car sex which I did not do.

Ended with us just going eating and I got 50€

The last guy was extremely friendly but it was his fist time meeting with a sex worker and after half an hour he ended the meeting because he felt uncomfortable with the thought of getting sex for money which was ok.

He even payed the promised money even though nothing really happened.

Currently I have mixed feelings about starting sex work again because i mostly do it for the operations i need even though normally the state would pay it if i had a psychologist whitch I cant find

Whitch makes me a bit angry.

I am annoyed by the constant cancelling by the customers because it is much work to prepare for anal and is so a big waist of energy and time.

And somehow i feel now much more lonely compared to the times where i don't do sex work and don't know why.

Nothing else has changed

Does anyone else knows that?

I miss my old regulars that was 20times better than this

Hey i just wanted to ask for some small tips before i start sex working again.

●My first question is when creating my post should i mention that I am doing sexwork so that i can afford some surgery's i want to do or should i not put that in the ad (trans)?

Maybe that gets some sympathy points or something.

●Second question is how do i best deal with time wasters and people that dont show up whitch were the biggest problem in the past when i did this sorte of work

●And third question and probably the last i currently have does anyone have a method to prepare your body for anal sex in secret?

I probably would use a plastic syringe with water and some lube to clean my insides of poop but i dont know how reliable that would be because normally i used an anal shower whitch i currently cant use because I am stuck in an hospital and need a more discreet method