I could start this with a goofy ass joke, a cheesy pickup line, or some bullshit that reads good. What I’d rather you do is be open to get to know me, I’m not in a rush to see you naked or share mine. Most women call this a slow burn, or foundation to start on. Those terms are ok, the way I look at this is you have to be honest (in this space that gets lost because we are or all should be married) with opsec intact I can and expect you to be yourself. I’ve been ghosted for being to much, told that it’s scare because I prove what I say, if emotions enter in to this it gets heavy and that part can be hard for a lot of people. I’m not here for a quick fix, entertain my mind and you will find that this detailed man, that shows affection with words of affirmation, can be AMAZING!
I’m not delusional in this, we get the best versions of each other here. We don’t see the little things that may drive each other nuts. I have faults but I have great qualities to offer.
This is what I don’t want!
- A woman scared or unsure of emotions
- A woman that can’t handle that I don’t hate my wife
- A woman that is looking for a reason to leave their marriage, no exit strategies here
- A woman that can’t communicate (yeah you all exist too)
- A woman that Ghosts, all you have to say is “I can’t do this” that’s enough
Enough of the don’ts let get to my desires.
- Handle the feelings of this like an adult, if it becomes overwhelming talk to me about it and not run away.
- Want an actual boyfriend in the online realm to start, if we agree there is potential that I would be willing to meet.
- Be conventionally attractive, I think this part sounds shallow and I am not that I don’t really have a type but I know what I like. I’m not in to BBW somehow mom bod has become that too. I’m not looking for Barbie, thick thighs, hips, round butts are very welcome.
Your lips will be the first thing I notice.
- Be real, in every way you think I’m talking about.
If you read this far here is where you will find a vague description of me. Want more send a DM.
I am a Dad, 44 years old and have lived a very full life. I have tons of stories, sad, happy, fighting, and ridiculous. I am college educated but I having chosen to work in a trade for 21 years. I work hard and play harder! Stand 6’2” and weigh in at 240lbs I don’t have a Dad Bod but I’m not a Greek God. I workout daily but I’m far from a gym bro. I cook and enjoy being in the kitchen, great food and sharing it is my love language. I have a lot of hobbies, I’m a bearded man that shaves his head bald with the ability to grow a full head of hair.