Dom friend mentioned starting a dynamic.
Made an acquaintance a couple years ago then ran into her at a Munch. The water jug was running low and I offered to tip it for her so the remaining water would flow. Without missing a beat she goes, "oh, service sub?" smiled, and walked away. I feel like I never recovered from being so thoroughly called out like that 🤣
We've become a little closer since then and became Fet friends. She invited me to her housewarming party and when I commented on some of her furniture (a church pew) she says, "that's my spanking bench; don't worry about" then a smile and again walked away.
More recently we went out dancing with some folks and she mentioned coming across my Feeld profile, that I'm looking for a dynamic, and that she's at a place in her life where she'd entertain that. Then while my ghasts were still flabbered she adds, "but we're not going to talk about it tonight. Tonight's for dancin'"
Y'all this woman flusters me SO much (in the best way)!
I talked to my partners and they're both so encouraging and think I should go for it if I want to (let's be honest, there's no 'if' there, hahaha)
I'm not sure if this post is looking for advice, or any shared experience where you entered into a Dom/Sub dynamic with someone you were already friendly acquaintances with, or if I just want to share my hopes in general.
I've had a few years experience in the scene but still feel relatively fresh and inexperienced with only one previous Dom/Sub dynamic outside of regular relationship dynamics.
Any resources to prepare for the upcoming discussion? How to improve my chances for the best possible experience, and how to navigate the friend space outside the kink space?