u/_sydswitch

I first got into estim when I was 18 back in 2005. Started with a TENs device and then bought myself an E-Stim Systems Series 1. Used it less and less over the years, usually only for forced painful orgasm. I know exactly how to use the Series 1 to make me prematurely nut within ~45secs. That Series 1 unit could only produce limited sharp bitey sensations. They still got the job done since I am a pain pig, but lacked nuance.

I somewhat checked out from keeping an eye on how this kink was evolving over the years but had always hoped to eventually fulfill a long standing desire to buy a proper kit once I was older and could choose to incur that ridiculous price tag. Back then the only pathway to high end estim was importing a heavy (and therefore expensive) item into Australia that may not even get delivered if you’re particularly unlucky. Similar to how when I was 18, chastity was limited to inferior products like the CB3k, or high-end expensive custom metal cages from maturemetal, compared to what is available now in the era of 3D printing.

I’m 40 next year so this came up in conversation recently with my partners, and it led me to this community where I learned about the product evolution in recent years and made an impulse decision to buy a Coyote 3.0 with the silver core rubber rings. Delivered to Sydney exactly one week after ordering. Played around with the DG Labs app first night and then migrated to Xtoys app last night with some choice patterns saved to my profile that I had sussed out whilst waiting for my delivery.

Holy shit my brain has melted in the best possible way…..

Upgrading from the Series 1 to a Coyote 3.0 is like VHS to BluRay!

I just recently discovered this subreddit and it's really awesome to see that it's such a widespread thing which seems to be increasingly accepted and embraced amongst men from all walks of life.

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I never intended to find myself cucked, it just happened naturally. I am usually very private about this in real life but I'd like to share with you guys how I ended up in this position.

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When I was a closeted gay teen living in rural Ireland back in the era of MySpace and LimeWire I had an Australian online gay friend. We spent many hours video chatting on MSN Messenger throughout our teens and ultimately lost touch when we turned 18 and started uni. We had never actually met in person but we told each other everything and supported each other through some difficult lonely times. It was a sexual friendship from the very start and I freely shared my burgeoning kink experiences with him including how I got into chastity when I was 17.

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22 years later I'm Australian now too, it's 2024 I'm on my way to the dentist when we serendipitously bump into each other on the street and immediately recognised each other. I'm pretty blown away by the fact the skinny emo twink I remembered is now confidently masculine, strong, shaved head and beard combo. A real man, compared to the fact I'm still that skinny nerd.

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We very quickly reconnect and become extremely close friends, we introduce my husband and his partner and start spending a lot of time together with an additional friend of mine making us a group of five.

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I pick up on the sexual chemistry between my old friend and my husband. One night when I'm alone with my friend after a few drinks and a shared joint, I say to him that if he's going to be fucking my husband he should make me watch.

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He is extremely receptive to this idea and the next evening I find myself naked kneeling in my bedroom watching him fuck my husband.

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He pushes my husband's head down into the pillow and holds him in that position. Not once does he ever break eye contact with me. Judging from my own eyes and my husband's moans, he was topping my husband in a way that I am simply incapable of replicating with my cocklet.

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I felt a strange sensation of joy to watch this very dear friend effortlessly assume sexual dominance over my marriage. I briefly indulge and close my eyes and touch myself. I barely get two strokes in before I feel a sharp pain - his immediate reaction to seeing me touch myself was to punch my balls. Somehow this manages to make me even more erect than before. He uses his free hand to firmly hold me by the chin and tells me to never again touch myself without asking first and that I should not have broken eye contact.

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Shortly after the first time, I am sat down by the two of them and am told that from now on I'd be staying locked in chastity by default and he would look after all of the keys. He started wearing one of them on a silver neckchain and bought me a silver chain of my own to wear one of those mini padlocks around my neck.

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Two years on he's very comfortable as the alpha of our little group, and I've never been happier or more satisfied to find myself permanently at the bottom of the hierarchy.