r/estim

What do I need to run triphase with my coyote? I have loops, pads and a moaner will I require a specific cable and adapters?

ok so this will be kinda long,

first question: what are some good starter e-stims? please send links!

so im really interested in trying estim because i actually love the shiver that goes through my whole body when i get a minor shock and i know in a sexual context i would probably go insane, ive been looking into estim nipple clamps or shock collars but ai was telling me that its dangerous, so my second question: from expierienced estim people, is it mostly safe?

and the next thing is my man, he loves to be dominant but hes not turned on much by the idea of estim, but he will still try it on me since he knows im interested, third question: how do i get him turned on and interested in this? he likes spanking me and says he wants to see my makeup running down my face (i needa get a runny mascara or smthn) and we use floggers and collars and gags so i thought he would really like this, but i think hes nervous it will actually hurt me because he doesnt like to see me cry from bad pain and he doesnt want to hurt me in a bad way, but thats just what im thinking, i dont know the confirmed reason why it doesnt turn him on

Has anyone on here ever attempted using electro stimulation gel in their urethra?

Hai! I am new to e-stim. My partner and I are big on CBT, especially ball torture and I am really interested in trying electrically induced pain:).

I am also very interested in the HFO and other experiences so ideally something relatively all purpose, but by far the main deciding factor is to get something quality safe and powerful enough for intense CBT:). It doesn't have to be the most beginner friendly but hopefully doesn't take an electrician to set up either.

I was looking into the coyote 3 but based on some accounts I've read it might be too weak for someone who wants to be able writhe in pain with it 😅 the other device on my sights is 2B.

For some reference of pain tolerance, getting punched/kicked in the balls is intense but also very enjoyable for me.

Any advice/recs very appreciated. Thank you!

So my Dom has recently began teasing me more and more about shock collars/estim as a focus for a session. It’s totally unexplored territory but it’s something I very much want to try. We play a lot long distance so I’ve been looking for something they can control remotely while we chat, game, play, etc. From my research, I’ve seen a lot saying you shouldn’t use a shock collar (even those made for humans or for small dogs) on your neck as there’s a lot of potential for nerve damage. Is there any way to make a shock collar work in this situation, or is it better to avoid it and focus on other locations for estim?

Also, I’d really appreciate any advice on what I should look to purchase for estim play. It seems like there’s a lot of components that are used together, so it’s a little overwhelming as to what I need and what can be saved for a later purchase. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated!❤️

For some reason my coyote won't connect to xtoys.

No device found it says , and it has worked before.

Howl and DG lab app forks just fine.

What to do?

I’ve hit my cart like 5 times and I have a Triphase setup with the moaner top being the common, bottom being one channel, and then CR around my glans like rim? And I’ve just been dry orgasming for like the last 30 minutes, everytime the wave goes up I dry orgasm, this is crazy

Hiii, yee, I DO wanna try this, it's something around my head for months...but, i always get dissapointed after seeing the costs of the equipments (hundreds of dollars....).... Anyway, i'm very, VERY starter/begginer, not a pro of electronics or such, so...was trying to look for some basic and simple guidance here, but again, aaaaa, it's such a mess for my lil brain, some ppl, saying words like "Midi" "RCP", etc...then some saying that it's not voltage, it's audio outputs, others using weird boxes with a Lot of buttons, with names like "Channels", then other words like "Coyote", and waaa, when i see videos on p*rn sites, the boxes ppl uses, are different shapes, sizes, some has lots of buttons, some uses 2 cables, some 3...i still don't understand anything ;w;...tried to look for a simple guidance on internet, but most of pages uses technical terms and...well, ya know x,D...

Initially i though it was just as simple as using a voltage regulator and put + - on body erotic parts and play with it...but i see it's not as simple as that...

Since Im seeing this is VERY COMPLEX, and yeah, not looking to spend hundreds...i found some comments about a product called TENS 7000, it's still expensive for me...but here in my country, i found a TENS 3000 like $20 cost, i Even wanted to spend less...but seeing the complex situation...i'm ok with paying that ammount x,D... anyway, i didn't found almost any feedback about this TENS version...so...i still don't know if this gonna work...like...from what Google says, this uses electrical pulses ...but at the same time ppl here talks about audio...and me like .."waaa, it's different with audio or tens?", and lots of silly questions...

In short, i don't understand anything about this and what i need, so, i prefer making it simple, and see if a TENS 3000 would work enough to have first experiences with electro estim ? ;w;

I was just wondering apart from hiw awesome it is, how addictive estimming is?

The thing with many addiction is that it is easy reward and it can mess up wit other areas of life for easy pleasures.

So how did it affected your life and relationship and attitude toward normal sex life?

I worry that it can make normal sex boring or hard. Or stimming can take too mich space out of the day

For a male likely using a combination of rubber loops and an anal plug for triphase any advice on which electrode works best as the "common" one? I appreciate that,as is often the case in such cases, the answer is likely to experiment and see what works best but I would be curious to hear if there is a common consensus on the topic.

(Long Story)

So a couple weeks ago while lying in bed doing our usual week night routine of chit chat and phone surfing, out of the blue she say, “I think O want to try E-stim….”

Say that again 😳!!

“E-stim, to help strengthen my pelvic floor.” I’ve been reading about it. I even ask my ARNP if it was legit” and she rattled off some device she had seen advertised and over priced lol. I was like “ohh yea e-stim is legit alright hehe. (We have 2 tens units for actual back and shoulder pain we bought 8-10 years ago now. That’s how “I” got into the E-Sex side of it. We then go into a 15-20 minute discussion about E-stim and she is talking out loud about the device and the probes they use and I was just sharing what i knew little bits at a time as she asked questions. She wondered if the device could drive her to an orgasm while using it, wondering if this was something she would have to do in private or can you wear it around the house. I filled her in that the right device on the right setting would absolutely do that but for just legal style stimulation probably not. I then volunteered that I had long ago tried the tens below the belt and yeah believe it or not it’s amazing. I then filled her in that I had went on to get an actual E-stim power box(Coyote 3) and it would blow her mind if she decided to try it for pleasure and not just muscle stim.

Two weeks later she got just a cheap probe off amazon, I let her pick on her own so she felt comfortable and assured her our tens box would work fine after doing some research online. Tonight she said wanted to try it, so I grabbed the tens unit and hooked it all up for her. She tried a couple modes with the bi-polar plug gripped in her hand first an I warned her it was probably more spiky feeling than it would be inside. She decided to go for it and we spent about 20 minutes total slowly working the dial up to where she could feel something significant but comfortable. We tried a couple of the different modes and landed on modulation mode. I still filling her in on some of the probes I had and how they compared to hers. I remembered I had a Komodo estim dildo and showed it to her and explained it would probably feel smoother because of the greater contact area and conductive silicone. She was all about trying it at this point. I changed probes explaining again safely tips on never withdraw while it’s on ect.

The little white probe she had bought we got up to about 4.5 on the tens, the Komodo we got up to 7 easily and it only goes to 9. She was getting into it now and said it was much smoother feeling. I filled her in next on my Coyote and showed her my moaner plug. She immediately latched on to trying the moaner after I told her about how instead of a side to side b-pole which causes contractions it is a front to back bi-pole and would feel like thrusting or waves of sensation. She also was turnt up enough and into it that she wanted to try the Coyote and all the different patterns it could do over a tens.

Again I swapped to the C3 and moaner on channel A. I fired up Howl and set it to penetration 😁. I worked the power up to about 30 and she was grinning ear to ear. We kept talking about options, I told her anal was definitely safe too, she is really into anal stimulation of all kinds, just not a size queen. I told her just a pad on her b-hole would make her eyes roll so she said let’s try it. Being limited on setting up a full second channel ( I need to make her a clit trode) I tri-phased just a pad for anal using the moaner base as a common. I eased channel B only up so she could feel what it was like by itself and I got an “OHHH WOOOOW” when it hit lol. I was like I told you haha!

We kept working the power up until she was at 55 on both. ( I can only handle about 20-30 normally and maybe 40-45 on a long session so O was blow away lol) and then she invited me to use my hands and mouth other zones. I also work the moaner around through the blanket to add to the sensation. After 20-30 minutes total the C3 I gave her clot a few circles and she gave me a good climax. She really wants a clot trode now so I’ll see what I can come up with. Got lots of conductive tubing and experience make them for me so shouldn’t be hard. Of course after all that stimulation she was ready for the real thing. She was soaking wet. I think she like it 😉

Is there any way to import an .mp3 file to Coyote 3.0? I tried and it didn't work.

Does an insertable plug used with the coyote 3 actually bring you to HFO quicker and more efficiently than just surface level estim? I’ve never actually gotten pleasure from anal play using vibrators but have heard that estim is completely different and it feels amazing almost as soon as you insert it and can come with some insane orgasms.

What is the model number of a replacement battery for the MK312-BT. My unit will only charge to 65%. Thinking is that I possibly have a battery issue. AC adapter charging adapter unit is good (15Vdc 1.0A output).

Everyone is talking about the xToys and Howl app. Are they really that much better than the coyote app. Do they bring HFO’s quicker? Are they available on mobile?

And do you stay hard the whole time? Sometimes it does the opposite for me. Still feels good though. Just curious what other peoples experiences were. Thanks

Thanks for all the responses everyone. That all were very insightful.

I want to order a Coyote 3 and don’t know if it’s worth it. I’ve been eyeing it down for a while but I don’t want to get it if it’s like any old Tens machine with a few other gimmicks. My main objective is to reach HFO pretty quickly with it and I’ll get the essential accessories as well (Rubber loops, cables, etc). I also wanted to know if the paw prints are actually worth it and if they’re useful? I’m honestly just going to be using this alone by myself so yeah. Is the anal plug worth it as well? I don’t get pleasure from anal play and have tried a few times, so if this is much better then I’ll get it.

Hope you’ll be able to help me out!

My partner and I are very experienced with BDSM (heavy bondage, impact, sensory play, etc.) but we're new with e-stim (except for the violet wand). We just got a Coyote 3.0 and have been experimenting with the conductive loops (1 cock loops, 1 ball loops). We're planning to integrate it into a heavy bondage (latex sleepsack) scene soon.

My main struggle as the Dom: once the loops are on him and powered up, I feel like I lose a lot of my usual tools. I’m hesitant to touch or stroke him directly with my hands because I’m worried the current will pass through me and remove the sensation from him. Not to mention the risk of accidentally moving the loops.

So far it feels like I’m mostly just adjusting the intensity/patterns on the app, touching him in non-electrode areas, and doing dirty talk. It may works, but it makes me feel more like a “machine operator” than an active dominant.

Any tips or experiences or scenarios to share are welcome.