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Larger prostate stimulators

Looking to get some recommendations on larger sized e-stim prostate stimulators that actually hit your prostate. I have the surge bi-polar one and it’s just pretty small and lack luster.

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u/rbrslv — 14 hours ago
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Sincerest thanks to this community!

I first got into estim when I was 18 back in 2005. Started with a TENs device and then bought myself an E-Stim Systems Series 1. Used it less and less over the years, usually only for forced painful orgasm. I know exactly how to use the Series 1 to make me prematurely nut within ~45secs. That Series 1 unit could only produce limited sharp bitey sensations. They still got the job done since I am a pain pig, but lacked nuance.

I somewhat checked out from keeping an eye on how this kink was evolving over the years but had always hoped to eventually fulfill a long standing desire to buy a proper kit once I was older and could choose to incur that ridiculous price tag. Back then the only pathway to high end estim was importing a heavy (and therefore expensive) item into Australia that may not even get delivered if you’re particularly unlucky. Similar to how when I was 18, chastity was limited to inferior products like the CB3k, or high-end expensive custom metal cages from maturemetal, compared to what is available now in the era of 3D printing.

I’m 40 next year so this came up in conversation recently with my partners, and it led me to this community where I learned about the product evolution in recent years and made an impulse decision to buy a Coyote 3.0 with the silver core rubber rings. Delivered to Sydney exactly one week after ordering. Played around with the DG Labs app first night and then migrated to Xtoys app last night with some choice patterns saved to my profile that I had sussed out whilst waiting for my delivery.

Holy shit my brain has melted in the best possible way…..

Upgrading from the Series 1 to a Coyote 3.0 is like VHS to BluRay!

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u/_sydswitch — 15 hours ago
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Estim intensity vs real sex

I've recently found myself in a whole new life where I went from estim as a chief means of getting off, to having lots of real sex, and I've had some issues recently getting over the edge to orgasm.

I haven't estimmed for a couple of weeks thinking maybe I could reset what my cock thinks is proper stimulation, but so far it doesn't seem to have helped.

Or, it could be age related as well - I'm 56 so I'm just not quite sure what's going on. If estim is part of the problem, I wonder how long it will take to reset how my nerves handle sexual stimulation.

My girlfriend is younger, beautiful, and horny all the time, and I wonder if maybe I need to put estim away so that I can orgasm normally.

Has anyone else experienced anything like this?

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u/Dramatic_Zebra_1069 — 1 day ago
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first estim orgasm!

I just had my first estim orgasm!!! Since i got my coyote i did estim pretty much everyday. Tried a bunch of patterns, placements and what feels good and what doesnt. Today i put a pad on my frenulum (the back of the glans) and one on the base of the penis also on the back. I put a condom over both pads to just keep them in place. Intensity was about 170 and it was a rather vibrating fast pace about 22ms (no clue what that is in hz). I watched porn and for the first 30 minutes i didnt feel a lot of pleasure at all. So i did some kegels that i also do while masturbating. Didnt work too. At some point i stood up to just get something to drink with the estim still on and laid back down. Thats pretty much wenn it started feeling pretty good. I got hornier, i really went into a horny mindset and 10 minutes later i was kind of begging to orgasm because it was so good and intense but didnt want to come out. Thats the moment where i usually stop and finish myself with my hands. 3-5 minutes later my pelvic floor tensed up and i came into the condom.

Pretty cool experience, thats my first hfo ever. Like i never had one in any way shape or form.

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u/cantcom96 — 1 day ago
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HFO sensation

So, does anyone else feel like a hfo is basically being forced to cum?

I enjoy it, but I'm not sure if my orgasm is any different than being put in chastity and cumming from a vibrator only.

Maybe I'm cumming wrong? Lol. Either way, I'm loving it, just wondering how others feel since some refer to it as an extremely strong orgasm. Or an orgasm like no other.

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u/Nyril-NA — 1 day ago
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Coyote 3 Anal Q

Hi folks: I recently got the Coyote 3 as an upgrade from the ElectraStim pebble.

I fooled around with the Noir Aura Multi-probe but didn't really get much out of it, but I wasn't quite ready to give up on anal estim, so I made a separate purchase on a probe that looks much like this one (but isn't; it just looks about the same so you get the idea). It's a little bigger than I expected but that's a separate issue.

What I'm wondering is what type of pattern tends to work best for something like this. I've been using the DG patterns and goofed around a little bit with xtoys as well but not for anal. Any suggestions for a relative beginner? TIA

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u/seesee63 — 1 day ago
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Coyote 3.0 potential issue, but unsure.

I recently received a coyote 3.0 and until I purchase an android device, I am using their DG-Lab 4.0. Using and getting used to the device and app, so I am unsure if the following behavior is expected, hardware issue, or setup/electrode issue.

Occasionally and randomly channel A will begin to jump stimulation level down (up one time, ouch) by 4 or 5 levels and then back to the original setting. It does it for 20 seconds or so and then stays at the original value. Channel B has never done this, so I think it must be a hardware issue.

I just wanted to check before reaching out to DG-Labs. My other thoughts were that maybe it’s caused by electrodes touching or some resistance change, maybe it’s a bug in the app, or maybe it’s supposed to do that and there is a setting?

Thanks

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u/Astron-Oh-My — 2 days ago
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How did you first discover e-stem

Following a recent post about how many stimmers are there, i'm curious how everyone else first got exposed to it.

I personally noticed the new e-stim audio device option in ScriptPlayer. Always looking for a new way to get off, I started googling. It took about a year before I actually bought a TENS unit. and then I went down the rabbit hole.

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u/dazzlingsaraa — 3 days ago
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Copper wire

Has anyone ever tried putting a thin copper wire through a cr loop? Is it safe with a coyote3. Will you get a boost in power? Thanks for any imput.

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u/Curious-Act38 — 4 days ago
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Large clit- need play advice.

I have a large clit with a decent size hood. I can cum using two “ear clips” during estim. I really love the idea of electrode loops though or some sort of restraint board like some people with cocks use.

Any ideas?

ETA: NOT a woman or lady.

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u/Trick-Ad-33 — 4 days ago
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help & advice with estim?

I'm afab (he/him pls) and I have a coyote 3.0. I'm trying to place my pads either side of my clit mainly, but have tried multiple other configurations.The areas I'm placing my pads are always clean shaven

No matter where I place my pads all I'm getting is a prickly surface sensation and it hurts even on the lowest setting. The sensations don't feel like they go any deeper than my surface skin and I'm not getting any pleasurable stimulation at all :(

Any suggestions or advice? I'm not sure what I'm doing wrong and I've been trying to get this to feel good for months

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u/pupfr3ak — 5 days ago
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Femoral artery?

I got a TENS/EMS unit recently to try using erotically and the little booklet says not to use it on your groin. For reference, I’m a woman with female anatomy.

I don’t know much about medicine, but I know the femoral artery is in that area. I haven’t seen warnings online about that in the erotic space, only recommendations to avoiding anything from the waist up and not putting it near your heart. Why do I or why don’t I need to worry about putting electrodes there? Just want to know how to be safe and was wondering if anyone on here could explain it!

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u/JustAHornyGirl7 — 5 days ago
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DG Labs Coyote Ship Time

Any chance if I ordered one today I could get it by next weekend? If not, is there something available that that could work with?

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u/milftouchmyballs — 6 days ago
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E-stim boxes that go over 100hz?

The Coyote has a maximum frequency of 100hz, while a standard TENS unit can reach 150hz. Has anyone used an erotic estim controller that can go to 150hz or higher?

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u/electric_pleasure — 6 days ago
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SNRIs are evil

Hey! I've been using my Coyote since Wednesday and have been very happy with the little guy so first of all thanks to all for praising it so much I got one for myself.

Today I've achieved my first two HFO - well kinda (and anyone also on SNRIs seeing the title is already cringing with me). Both times got there with the simplest of setups - two sticky pads, one on my pubic area, one on perineum, lots of time and controlled breathing. However both times I got to the part where your body sends the final contraction signal, but the medication blocks the release, so I was stuck bent in half being so close to cumming, yet in the end not getting the release.

Does anyone have any tips on breaking the chemical barier? I have an appointment with my psychiatrist to alter the meds, but that's in three weeks’ time.

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u/mango004 — 6 days ago
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Involuntarily urination

Still relatively new to stimming and thought tonight was going to be the for a hands free

Things were going well, felt like it was about to happen then all of a sudden uncontrollable emptying of my bladder

Was there anything I did technically wrong like placement (was just using loops) or you just need to make sure you go to the bathroom first and know the difference?

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u/Chemical_Bee_8542 — 7 days ago
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Comparison power boxes

DG labs coyote 2 and 3

Darkmatter zc95

Abox mk2

Estim 2B

So many units and I probably forget / am unaware of some.

Is there a comparison overview with pro's and con's?

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u/Small_Shelter_4361 — 5 days ago
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E-Stim with a metal cage and rosebud sound

Been estiming for while, and have been trying all different kinds of electrode positions until I tried this.

I have my box setup on triphase with one side connected to a butt plug, the other side connected the cage and common connected to the rosebud sound. I've got a little heat shrink to isolate the rosebud everywhere except for the head. And since the sound can move in and out, I can push it in for some deep prostate stimming, or pull it all the way out, isolating all the power just at my little tip and it feels sooo goooood 🤤.

Ever since I tried this I've been exclusively using this setup every time I play. I'm just surprised I've never seen anywhere else, it's my favourite by far.

Someone should try it and tell if they love it as much as I do 😋

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u/P20031120 — 7 days ago
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Sh scars and pads

Hi, I want to buy a toy for estim. However I have a lot of sh scars everywhere.

Is it okay if the pads cover some scars? I don't have much clean skin.

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u/Flat-Cut3895 — 6 days ago
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Best anal e-stim toy for prostate play?

I'm not new to E-stim personally, I've had the ElectraStim Flick Duo Multi Pack 3-in-1 for a few years now and its been a lot of fun. However I am VERY curious about anal toys for e-stim, I can't fit big toys up my butt and tend to focus on smaller more prostate oriented toys versus dildos and I am wondering what would be the best type of E-stim anal toy that will really rock my prostate? if possible I want the toy to be on the cheaper side though I am willing to save up some money for a more expesive toy if it truly makes all the difference.

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u/Magma_Obsidian — 8 days ago