Frequency of play make a difference?
Ive been a fairly regular player with the prostate for the last 10months now... i managed to get some good goijg P-Waves and felt like i was making progress - but the last time I managed that was around 2-3months ago, and since then no P-waves at all
I still get subtle pleasure and I really enjoy the whole meditation aspect of it all. My go to toy is the aneros psy syn, and occasionally I have the Helix Syn V, which are the only toys ive managed to get waves with.
I do have a squarepeg Charlie Horse Milk it - which honestly feels great for stretch, but doesn't really build waves either, and i basically tend to use it to have blended orgasms after a session.
I think part of the reason I havent really progressed is maybe because I don't have that much time to play regularly - i only tend to have a few hrs, one day a week. So my cycle tends to be 7 days abstinence and then play for 2-3hrs on one day, then a blended finish.
The other aspect is recent months - my wife and I decided to go for IVF, so the clinic says to keep sperm optimal and healthy, I have to cum every 3days or so. So im either having sex or masturbating.
So my questions are:
is my lack of P Waves due to infrequent prostate play? And if so - how often should I be going for?
or is it because im ejaculating too often to build any abstinence and therefore sensitivity? Should I just wait until after the IVF is done to pick it up again, stress free?
I don't know if anyone can answer this - but does prostate stimulation detract from sperm quality?
Thanks in advance!!