u/aggmia2014

First meeting in open

Scheduling to meet a new provider. I’ve been accustomed to scheduling hotel room rendezvous meetings. I’m considering asking about a first meeting at the hotel bar for a dinner/dessert then heading to the room. I think it would help to break the ice and mitigate any of that first time awkwardness when meeting.

What are the thoughts on this as a first meeting? Is expecting public time for a first meeting not reasonable? I will obviously ask her preference, but wanted to see what others thought. Thank you!

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u/aggmia2014 — 23 hours ago

Public date expectations

Meeting a provider for the third time, they are in the 1,500/hr range. Doing an extended date (3 hours) so planning to meet for some food and drinks then head back to the hotel. This is my first time out of the room with a provider.

Is this typically a true GFE even in public? Normal PDA acceptable? Do I let her take the lead? Do I ask (I feel like this may be awkward to ask)? Just touching, small kissing, things you would normally do haha. I don’t want to overstep.

How should I handle the payment? I typically do cash on the bathroom sink in an unsealed envelope. This is a higher amount and also meeting in public. Envelope in a gift bag?

I am excited and appreciate the help from this community!

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u/aggmia2014 — 1 month ago

Looking to possibly book a duo in a major city. I’ve typically stuck with solo providers in the 1k plus per hour range. This duo opportunity with two female providers caught my eye. It’s definitely something I have on my fantasy list, but I am a little worried about booking.

I am a pretty reserved guy and get a little nervous. I worry that it’s something I can’t “handle”. Wondering if a duo for 90 minutes is something I should go for. The pair is friends and advertises duos, so it’s not new for them. How is the dynamic for duos? What has been your experiences? Thank you for any advice.

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u/aggmia2014 — 4 months ago