u/airtomadera

I’m 44 yo Latino, fairly new to this and learning about my sexuality.
I’ve been straight my whole life but it’s been a couple of years that I have felt the urge to explore and as many other people, I’ve tried to see where I would fit.
I of course enjoy females but also enjoy the idea of being on the other side, for once not being in charge and being the one who’s passionately taken. (I guess that makes me Bi but also a Bottom?).
The idea of being a “Side” appeals to me but to my understanding, it doesn’t involve penetration and that’s something I really want to explore. But the simple process of being a “side” sounds really exciting to me as well.
Do I need to find a label? Do I really need to put a tag to my sexual preference and desires? I guess maybe to better identify myself with others might be helpful but it’s hard when my spectrum goes so wide.
I have a very open mind and I’m in the process of interest where I’m willing to try almost anything that’s new for at least once.

How did you defined yourself? Does it actually matter?

Thanks for reading.