Have uncut guys ever felt the urge to see or touch a circumcised cock, or vice versa—have cut guys ever wanted to see, hold, or suck an uncut cock with a foreskin? Have you ever felt that desire? If so, how did you quench this thirst?
I used to be straight then because curious then bi and now gay. Ever since I first became attracted to men, I’ve always been a side. I have no interest in any ass stuff at all, it’s always been a natural turn off for me. But I still am extremely sexually attracted to men and prefer watching gay porn. But it’s so hard to find good porn for sides, everything always leads to anal sex. Places like here and x have been the best ways for me to find stuff but it’s still only clips. I really wish someone would step up and create a gay porn site, like pornhub, only for sides. Or if there was a gay pornstar who only did side content, that would be so hot! I’ve always wondered why there are no sides in gay porn, I thought it was pretty common but I guess not.
I’m a bisexual man with a strong preference towards men. I’m in a relationship with another guy. We never identified as “top” nor “bottoms” as we found it rather… let’s say disciplining (we didn’t want to define ourselves this way knowing that sexuality is fluid and we might be enjoying different acts/dynamics depending on our moods). What is more, we’ve hardly ever participated in anal - when we chose to do it, I was the one penetrating. It was nice, but: 1. We knew it required at least some type of preparation; 2) I couldn’t stop thinking about the “purpose” of the hole.
For a long time I thought that maybe we should do it more often to expose ourselves and therefore enjoy it more. I think that it had to do with my pornography use - we all know that anal is considered as an ultimate gay sex act there. Not gonna lie, when I watch it I’m getting turned on, especially when it’s sensual or intense, but not rough. However, it’s a fiction. Shit might happen and if some people can już wipe it off (hehe), that’s fine. But I can’t. It’s too much for me. So anal isn’t a part of our sex life. I’m not saying it’s never going to happen again, but we concluded that we don’t necessarily need it.
However, I sometimes lack penetration. I bought myself a flashlight and let me tell you this - orgasms are great. But that’s the thing - sometimes I crave sex with a woman because of the penetration part. I enjoy vaginas, but I’ve only had sex with my man so far. We discussed it and he told me he would be fine with me experimenting. Well, I want to, but I’m not sure how to even approach it.
But that’s not important. I wanted to see if there’re any other bisexual men here who feel this way or maybe have an experience as a penetrating person with woman and a side with a man. I know that this is a gay group, so I hope I won’t be seen as an impostor.
Like it's hard enough for us to find Sides around our age, but everytime I do I have 0 in common with the other. 33 American, living in Illinois.
I Don't drink or use any kind of substance, no concerts/raves, no drag, no poly.
I'm a homebody gym Rat beefy guy whose down to Earth, chill, loves cuddling/physical touch, sports, art, gaming, anime, some traveling, & going to Cons or being outdoors in nature. I have socials but rarely on them. I can't seem to find anyone who relates to me in even some of these interests. Mostly looking for someone who has the same NO's.
Also, Do you guys think will ever have an app for us homebody sides?
For me it’s the internalized feeling I’m not normal or less than other gays
The question pretty much
Since anal sex is perceived as the norm in gay relationships/hookups... has anyone thought they weren't gay before accepting/realizing what they were, but just not into anal?
I'm asking because I've questioned my sexuality for a long time, because I was sexually attracted to men, but the idea of anal always grossed me out, and I thought I couldn't be gay/bi for this reason. Does anybody relate to that?
I go out with guys every year. I talk to them a lot, I share interests, ask questions, listen to them. But if I don't talk to/make conversation/add to Their talk with the bartender, I'm hit with stop being shy/you're too shy. It annoys the piss out of me. Not everyone is an extreme social bug that talks to everyone in sight. My bios do mention I'm Homebody/Nerd.
Curious Bi lad Looking for places to meet people into tracksuits or sportswear of all sorts
Kinda hard to find