u/KaijuTree123

Like it's hard enough for us to find Sides around our age, but everytime I do I have 0 in common with the other. 33 American, living in Illinois.

I Don't drink or use any kind of substance, no concerts/raves, no drag, no poly.

I'm a homebody gym Rat beefy guy whose down to Earth, chill, loves cuddling/physical touch, sports, art, gaming, anime, some traveling, & going to Cons or being outdoors in nature. I have socials but rarely on them. I can't seem to find anyone who relates to me in even some of these interests. Mostly looking for someone who has the same NO's.

Also, Do you guys think will ever have an app for us homebody sides?

I go out with guys every year. I talk to them a lot, I share interests, ask questions, listen to them. But if I don't talk to/make conversation/add to Their talk with the bartender, I'm hit with stop being shy/you're too shy. It annoys the piss out of me. Not everyone is an extreme social bug that talks to everyone in sight. My bios do mention I'm Homebody/Nerd.

Thinking about Finally driving down to Pride Fest.

Is there anything artsy to do, shop vendors, or sports stuff to participate in there? Nerdy jock 😅

I don't drink or do concerts/raves.

I'm a Dom in the Streets, Kinky Sub in the Sheets type of Guy. 33, White/Tan Hairy Beefy Nerdy Tall Jock here.
(I like guys around my age or younger, opposite of me (Thin/Lean guys or guys with only some muscle build). The Problem is that guys like that are sub and/or not into me.
Curious if anyone else has same experience or how are you finding these guys? I live 40mins from Chicago
(Grindr, Scruff, & Recon) are of No help 😞