u/alpharex7

Hi folks,

I (26M) and my gf (26F) we are in a long distance relationship and when we engage in sex, I lose boner midway during Sex. I find it quite irritating because of this. Also, she now thinks like I'm not finding her hot enough that's why I'm losing the boner.

This happens not every time but it happens and I'm worried about this. Last week also this happened when she came to my place to stay. We had multiple sessions. But during the last session when it was time for her to go. I lost boner. I was so angry with myself that I couldn't make her feel so good before leaving.

When I say, I need to visit a doctor, she gets annoyed and says you are perfectly fine, no need to visit a doctor for this.

Please advice