Need advice with low self esteem Domme
Hi. My Domme and I have been together almost 15 years. The past few years we’ve been “on again, off again” trying to make long distance work. We have a total Dominant/slave dynamic.
I don’t wanna get too long winded about our relationship but want to explain we’ve been in each other’s life for a very long time and I know her likes and wants very well and understand her really well.
The issue I’m having is that she’s gained a lot of weight lately. This doesn’t matter to me one bit. When I look at her she’s still the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen in my life. I’m still very physically attracted to her and emotionally still just as devoted and caring as always. It has, however, really affected her and her esteem and confidence. She has always had a praise kink but has asked me not to praise anymore cause it makes her feel uncomfortable. I’m guessing it’s because she doesn’t believe the praise. Praise was a very big part of my service to her and it’s hard to just shut off but when I slip I can feel her discomfort.
I’m looking for advice on ways I can show support and help her feel beautiful without making her feel uncomfortable. She’s really going through a depression with this and I’ve been trying to give her space. I feel she needs space but I don’t wanna give her so much space that she feels I’m wandering off. I want her to feel like a sexy Princess again and know that my devotion doesn’t matter on a body type and she’s still the same person I gave myself to a long time ago