u/ashh_iya

19F4F Toronto: r4r Fight Night! Calling All Girlies(straight, bi, lesbian) on r4rtoronto!

Hi y'all, I'll be getting my own place soon so I wanted to go through w/ hosting & this idea I have. I'm a lesbian looking for other women (Les, bi, straight) for this Fight Night/Social Group. The attire is topless (wearing shorts, athletic thongs, or Nike pros/compression shorts) & there would be hookups/intimate time involved after fights so Les & bi women can get w/ each other. Fighters can kiss & cuddle while watching TV or have sex and hookup, and anything in between in a room w/ full privacy. Can be the person u fought or someone who peaked your interest w/ their strength😏straight ladies i also have something for you so that I don't leave you lovely girlies alone; my bestie is a straight dude, super friendly, progressive, doesn't hit on any lesbians or bi girls into women, & for hookups will always wear a condom, hes a good guy trust me ladies he's a girly pop deep down and will be a man when you need him to :)he's also a lover & appreciator in bed so chances are at the end of any intimacy you'll feel 10x as confident. I don't wanna leave y'all lonely while the others are kissing or a bit more intimate post fight. if there's any interest from straight ladies then yes I can plan accordingly and invite him. safety will be ensured by me & my bestie, 1 of us as the ref & the other as the round timekeeper

as for the Fight Night itself, the fights will be topless like I said. The different styles of matches we can have are styles of wrestling, boxing & other variants like kickboxing & muay Thai w/o any strikes above the shoulders so that we all stay pretty :), mma (basically any style you want), 1v1 & 2v2 variants of these & more. at the end of a fight, both competitors will say 1 thing they admired about their opponent (whether it be skills or even their bod/looks) as well as HUGS! the only time anyone is nude below the waist would be w/ their partner & consensually in private.

open to all experience levels, especially no experience at all! we can organize matchups based on skill or even stuff like a push up or plank contest, whatever everyone's cool with. We can also offer training days bc It's another social thing to do together! We know some ladies may not be ready right away so training can get you used to it!

we are a social group so the stuff we would do outside of fight nights:

  • get food together
  • enjoy walks as there are some good trails & calm neighborhood streets (i plan on getting a place in a really safe neighbourhood)
  • workout together either at my place or a free gym ik of
  • some sports outside (basketball on shorter rims, volleyball)
  • watch TV at my place
  • dance to music (this is gonna be really fun)
  • card games as they get VERY fun

so if the things above intrigue you, don’t hesitate to ask questions!!

bonus if someone has a car as we can drive to a nice park and enjoy the summer night breeze after the fights. I’m in uni so I can’t really afford a car, it’s tough out here 😪but transit is still great in my area. bonus as well to anyone that lives in a building w/ a sauna or has a sauna at home as I’d love to have calm recovery sessions in a sauna during some days/evenings

Discreet: we should all be comfortable doing this (fighting) & embracing each others bodies w/ top freedom & no shame. We should be able to do things like pose topless in the mirror and feel sexy flexing out muscles :p let's show off our hard work 💪

I’m Asian myself (grew up here, Asia, and even in California haha) so I’m looking for other asian women and fellow minorities especially but all are welcome, you may just have what it takes to be the champ of fight night! I want this to be a really good space for Asian & other minorities so that we can all benefit from this since sex spaces aren’t always too friendly to minorities. Age: anyone born in the year 2000 at the oldest (so age 25/26). 18-26 but if you’re older and have fight experience then for sure I’d be up to invite you! just gotta make sure it’s a good fit

no men, no MF couples. I will check post history and you should be able to easily describe yourself. Taken Ladies don't tell your man abt this just enjoy fights w/ your fellow ladies😌.Trying to protect everyone's safety here & my bestie & other girlies are also going to help stay organized. Things here shouldn't leak out. Unwanted DMs will be reported so don’t ruin your account.

my overall goal is to have a group full of strong women whether someone wants to develop strength or already is strong. I always hear many girlies say they’re starting at the gym but not consistent so I’d love to have a safe space where we can all achieve goals. As a social group i just want to meet new people, get good eats w/ and have a ton of fun throughout the summer as I am social myself & summer weather+good company makes life better.

Please provide an intro about yourself (age, height, weight, any fight experience, ethnicity bc culture is beautiful and racism is an ick, why this post peaked your interest 🙂 & what u’re looking forward too in this social group). We’ll start off w/ small groups of maybe 2-4 1st then grow it overtime as I get to know everyone & when the time is right. Also DO NOT delete your Reddit account as when my own place is finalized I’ll be able to finally host so hang in there queens!!

I've proposed this idea to a few women on this sub in my DMs and it's been received positively by all of them, straight, bi, & les. So l've decided to officially post. Forget clubbing and bars this summer, this is gonna be the big fun thing this summer!!

Finally, my last post here was titled 22F as I was looking for an old user who was 22. I myself am 19 and I’ve let the mods know, they’ve approved me as a user and shoutout to them for all the help in guiding me through this 🫶just thought I’d clear that up if my post history looked off

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