u/asmallthrowaway9

It's obvious they're just looking for lonely depressed guys to bait into jerking off to them so they can exploit our misery for their profit. I don't have anything against women who use OF for money, everyone has to make a living and times are tough, but this subreddit is a safe space and they really should find other subreddits to advertise on - there are plenty for them to use.

I tried explaining this to the woman who posted here today and she just pivoted right back to advertising for it. It's obvious they don't care about us except as a means to boost their accounts, and they should do it elsewhere on reddit. They won't leave us alone unless we ban them, though. So let's make it a rule: women who have OF advertisements/links on their profiles should have their posts removed and then be banned. It's just making rule 10 less ambiguous anyways.

This is something I've struggled with over time.

Objectively I understand why women view us as undesirable, and truthfully if I was a woman I'd probably feel the same way. What I really hate is women making fun of us, dehumanizing us, degrading us, etc. over an unchangeable part of our bodies.

My question is, how do you avoid falling down the MGTOW/manosphere rabbit hole and maintain a healthy attitude towards women? I find it difficult not to resent women, and have generally found I can only do so by avoiding thinking about them and focusing on other things in my life. I don't think it's right or acceptable to hate women for having needs we can't fulfill, but it's harder to forgive the gleeful cruelty many of them engage in upon finding out our sizes.

Any advice?

I've never had a girlfriend, never been kissed, and (obviously) never had sex. But although life can be lonely sometimes, I don't regret the path I've chosen.

The pain of rejection and the potential social stigma that comes with it is simply too great. When you consider how unlikely it is to find someone who genuinely lusts after and enjoys small dicks, and how viciously cruel people can be when they find out you have one, celibacy seems like the safest, most secure option.

If I have my way, nobody will ever see me naked unless I'm in a doctor's office or the hospital. My body will be my burden and shame to bear in silence, and that is as it should be. I'm just grateful I don't attract much female interest, as I'd hate to have to make someone feel bad by turning them down out of self-preservation.